Stacy...Sensibly Insane

MOVING

2007-01-02T17:46:00.000-05:00

Because of the new Blogger Beta messing with various blogs, I've decided to move over to it but in order to do so I had to start a new blog all together. Sorry for the inconvenience and I hope you'll join me at

http://www.stacydawn.blogspot.com

If it's not too much trouble, could any of you with my link, change it over to the new one...thank you so much, I truly appreciate it. For those who aren't already linked to me, I plan to update them on my new page so just go ahead and send me an email. I'd be happy to add you!!
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See you there!

Let's Ring in the New Year...next week LOL.

2006-12-30T08:14:00.000-05:00

Let’s celebrate the New Year, with new books!!

The hostesses of Romance Bistro are throwing a week long

“Ring in the NewYear Party”

January, 8 thru the 12.

There will be contests, excerpts, blurbs, Q&A, and prizes galore!!

All authors are welcome to participate we just ask that you give out at least

one prize per day that you participate.

Readers please join in on the fun and spread the word. The more the merrier. Our handsome waiter Joe will be on hand all week long giving out refreshments, snacks, and relaxation massages!!

You don’t want to miss this party!

The events will be separated as followed:

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Monday: Sweet/Sensual

Tuesday: Erotic
Wednesday: Contemporary
Thursday: Paranormal
Friday: Historical
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Follow the confetti to http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Romance_Bistro/ to join Romance Bistro so you don't miss out on the fun.
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Authors: If you’d like to participate please send an email to Kelley @ kelleyvitollo.com (no spaces) by Wednesday January, 3 to sign up.

Let’s throw a “Ring in the new year” party that will have everyone

talking until next year!

Cavewoman

2006-12-27T09:59:00.000-05:00

I hope everyone had a wonderful Christmas!

My little guys made out like thieves. Oh but they were so cute when they came down Christmas morning. Big smiles and mouths hanging open...all for board games and a monster truck--can't beat that LOL.

I might be awol for the next week or so while I'm buried in the revision cave. The story is due asap and I took the past two days off for Christmas so I'm a bit behind (don't worry, Dayna LOL). I'll pop up to lurk every once in a while for a break of daylight when I can--then I'll tell you all about it!!

Merry Christmas!!

2006-12-23T09:56:00.000-05:00

Thanks so much to all those who joined me for the Christmas Blog Party yesterday! It was so much fun!

For those who won a Secret Santa gift, email me at stacydawn_author @ hotmail.com (no spaces) so I can get your present out to you!

I probably won't be on very much over the next few days so I want to make sure I wish each and every one of you a very Merry Christmas!! I hope Santa fulfils all your wishes.

CHRISTMAS BLOG PARTY!!

2006-12-22T07:15:00.000-05:00

3 More sleeps 'til Christmas!! How cool is that!

Okay, Let's start this party with the announcement of my Who's your Favorite Reindeer Contest!

I'll be honest, I thought it would be a lot closer....

#3 Favorite Reindeer : Olive, the other reindeer

#2 Favorite Reindeer: Vixen, from the erotic authors LOLOL.

And by a WIDE margin for his ability to overcome great odds, the #1 Favorite Reindeer is...

RUDOLPH!

Thank you all for so many entries!! All the names were put into a Santa hat and the winner of the Mini Santa Scrapbook Kit is....Carrie a.k.a. Glamorous Redneck!

Congratulations Carrie! Send me an email and I'll get your prize out to you.

All Right Then! This is a party so I want you to enjoy the platters of cookies I've been baking for four weeks now. I have hot cider, hot chocolate, and hot men over near the buffet table.

While we're all mingling, I want to hear...

What you'd like Santa to bring YOU for Christmas?

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What is the WORST christmas present you ever received?

And your absolute favorite Christmas show/movie that you watch every year?

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What would a Christmas party be without a

Secret Santa

so I've secretly written down some numbers and those posts will get a Secret Santa gift !!

And for more fun, pop over to Candice's blog. She has Useless Movie Knowlege the Christmas Edition going on for a chance to win EBOOKS!!

Why??

2006-12-21T08:15:00.000-05:00

Okay, this post has nothing to do with anything but it's just one of those things that I have to address because I just don't understand it.

Why do you have great hair days on the days you don't care and the worst on the days you need to look good??

Seriously, my hair today looks AMAZING! I don't mean to sound egotistical but it doesn't happen very often so I'm always giddy when it does. The thing is though, no one is going to see it. Well, no one I really know. You see, it's my son's school assembly and his kindergarten class is singing. Obviously, I have to dress for public (ie: none of the sweats and bandanas I were around the house LOL) but nothing more than jeans and a sweater. It will be all of fourty-five minutes so it's not like I'm planning for a fancy Christmas Party or anything. I'll be coming right home afterwards because I have a time crunch project to finish and need to write all day while he's at school. I had my shower, slapped on a bit of gel and the blowdryer and WHAMMY...good hair day.

Will it look this good tomorrow when I have to go out to finish my Christmas shopping....No, guarenteed.

Ah well, maybe since it makes me feel good my writing will be better today LOL.

It's Beginning to look a lot like Christmas!!

2006-12-20T07:07:00.000-05:00

Five Days.

Five Days until Christmas....and I am more behind than I have been in years!!

Thank you for all your commiserations on my being sick this time of year. Slowly it's getting better but because of the ear thing I can't drive LOL...yeah, this should be interesting.

If it sounds like I'm complaining, I swear, I'm not. I'm actually laughing at it and in a great mood...in the Christmas mood. The kids have been changing the little calendars, marking down the days and I'm just as excited for them...can't wait to see their faces with what Santa brings **wink**.

So, what is Santa bringing to your house this year?

Episode # 30: And the Winner is...

2006-12-20T07:02:00.000-05:00

Wow, what a way to end the season! And now, the present goes to...Jenna!

Congratulations! Send me an email for the details of how to claim your prize.

Thank you all for a wonderful first season! Watch out for some changes coming all around too.

And we'll see you in the new year for the next sensibly insane episode of....

ESCAPE the Mondayn: Episode # 30

2006-12-18T07:21:00.000-05:00

Welcome to the final episode of Escape the Mondayn for the 2006 season!

I'm your host, Stacy Dawn. I thought we'd go out with a bang this season so please welcome our action packed Christmas hunk....Dean Cain!

Hmm, I already see someone is unwrapping you for Christmas there Dean.

You did specify no shirt **wicked smile**

**chuckle** That I did but obvioulsy I forgot to write into the contract that all help is to come from the hostess. Here, let me finish for you.

Ah yes, much better.

As I mentioned, this will be the last episode until the new year and watch out everyone, some changes are coming. The studio may be relocating so check back for the details.

Okay, let's get to our game! Dean, please spin our wheel and see what one lucky contestant could win today.

You got it, Stacy. Tickety-tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety...tickety...tick. It landed on a Hand Beaded Bracelett.

Oooooh, a wonderful accessory for a New Years Party. And I doooo so like to party **wink**.

Ready then everyone? Here's your escape:

Off to the company Christmas Gala, you hail a cab and jump in...so does someone else from the other side--not much room left after his shoulders fill the backseat. AT the same time you both give directions for opposite ends of the city...GO!

Let yourself escape and tell me what happens next! Let your imagination run wild!

Give me two lines or give me twenty, it doesn't matter. This is all for fun so leave your doubts behind, let your fingers fly over the keyboard while you let yourself...

Ugh.

2006-12-15T11:28:00.000-05:00

I hate getting sick around this time of year.

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Start Stuffing Your Stockings

2006-12-13T07:14:00.000-05:00

Over at the Story Board today, it's Stuff your e-Stocking Day! Tons of authors, tons of ebooks, tons of fun.

I meant to be there all day but we now have to go into the city today. I'll pop in for a bit early this morning and again hopefully late tonight because you know me, I hate to miss a good party!!

So--Go get your stockings stuffed!

Episode #29: And the winner is...

2006-12-13T07:11:00.000-05:00

Out of the Santa hat, the name is pulled and the winner is....Readingissomuchfun/Linda!

Congratulations! Email me for the details!

And we'll see you again next week for another episode of...

ESCAPE the Mondayn: Episode #29

2006-12-11T00:16:00.000-05:00

Welcome to the Seasonal Editions of Escape the Mondayn. I'm your host, Stacy Dawn. I just watched the funniest Christmas movie the other night and had to ask the hunky star over today. So please, welcome our guest celebrity spinner today...Ryan Reynolds!

Ho Ho Ho and Merry Christmas, Stacy.

Ho Ho Ho to you too! Mmm-mmm-mmm, if you had pulled me in for a kiss the way you did your co-star at the end of Just Friends, I would follow your sleigh anywhere.

**sexy smile** Maybe we'll have to try that then.

Practice makes perfect you know **wink**

Before we do we better take care of the gameshow first. Please spin our wheel and see what one lucky contestant could win today.

Righty-oh. Tickety-tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety...tickety...tick. It landed on a 2007 Day Planner.

Plans for all the New Years fun!. What does our Object Wheel give us today?

Tickety-tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety...tickety...tick. It landed on a Santa hat.

Cute. Remember contestants, you must incorporate a Santa Hat into your entry today.

Ready everyone? Here's your escape:

There he is, free and clear, standing on the other side of the room. This is your chance...all signs say go. You want him and you're 90% sure he wants you to. Slowly you make your way over, his eyes follow you the entire way...GO!

Let yourself escape and tell me what happens next! Let your imagination run wild!

Give me two lines or give me twenty, it doesn't matter. This is all for fun so leave your doubts behind, let your fingers fly over the keyboard and don't forget to add in a Santa Hat somewhere while you let yourself...

And I'll see you Tuesday at Word Flirts for some more sensibly insane musings.

We're Having a Party!!

2006-12-08T07:36:00.000-05:00

This time of year is the best for parties. We had my husband's Christmas Party for his work last week and had a blast. I won a paper shredder. Okay, yeah, it wasn't the new X-box or anything but come on, I'm a writer and stationary/office store junkie....I was giddy as a kid Christmas morning because I've wanted one for ages!

Speaking of Christmas Parties, my real-life social calendar may be over for them but not my on-line one.

Consider this a huge invitation to join me for these upcoming parties!!

Today: TWRP authors are getting together at Chatting with Joyfully Reviewed for a day of excerpts, contests, and fun. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Chatting_with_Joyfully_Reviewed/

Tomorrow (Saturday): It's the Grand Opening of the Sweeter Romantic Notions Authors Blog! Talk about a big party! http://srnauthors.blogspot.com/

December 13: I'll be at the Story Board's Stuff your e-Stocking Day. Loads of authors, readers, fun and best of all give-aways!! http://groups.yahoo.com/group/The_Story_Board_/

December 16: My newsletter should be out so if you haven't signed up yet, it's there on the left. Member giveaway and holiday news and recipies!

December 18: It's the Sweeter Romantic Notions Christmas Extravaganza! More authors, more contests, and more giveaways! http://groups.yahoo.com/group/SweeterRomanticNotions/

TWRP authors will also be at Fallen Angel Review Chatters this day...double the party!! http://groups.yahoo.com/group/fallenangelreviewchatters/

December 22: Blog Party Right Here! Find out the results of my Reindeer Poll/Contest (don't forget to leave the vote for your favorite in the comments after you read this today) I'll be doing giveaways for those who comments and I want to hear an update on how everyone is doing with only a couple days left till Christmas.

And stay tuned for informations about The Romance Bistro's New Years Party!!

Whew! What a great month!

It's Beginning To Look A Lot Like Christmas...

2006-12-06T21:37:00.000-05:00

1. Egg Nog or Hot Chocolate?

Hot Chocolate...preferably Tim Hortons (It's a Canadian thing LOL)

2. Does Santa wrap presents or just sit them under the tree?

Sitting there for bright eyes and eager smiles in the morning.

3. Colored lights on tree/house or white?

Colored...definitly colored. The brighter the better.

4. Do you hang mistletoe?

Heck ya!

5. When do you put up your decorations?

December 1st.

6. What is your favorite holiday dish?

Turkey and stuffing

7. Favorite Holiday memory as a child:

My dad making us stay at the top of the stairs until he started the fire and made coffee...it was torture then but the best memories now.

8. When and how did you learn the truth about Santa?

As in...what? He doesn't really come down the chimney? Can you blame him, how would you like your butt toasted over and over and over again in one night. Yeah, I know he comes through the front door.

9. Do you open a gift on Christmas Eve?

No but I could have sworn that we used to open one as kids but my mother swears it ain't so.

10. How do you decorate your Christmas Tree?

Colored lights of course and 95% of the ornaments have meaning collected back to when I was a baby. We buy and receive special ones every year to add to the memories.

11. Snow! Love it or Dread it?

I like snow as long as it stays within reasonable inches. The storms and XX amount of feet I can live without.

12. Can you ice skate?

Yes, on a good day.

13. Do you remember your favorite gift?

Silliest thing but it was my very first watch. I REALLY wanted one and I remember standing in front of it Christmas morning (Santa left it on the table with my name beside it) and just staring at it with my mouth wide open for ages in awe before I'd touch in.

14. What's the most important thing about the Holidays for you?

Family and being together.

15. What is your favorite Holiday Dessert?

Cookies. Lots and lots of variety. Oh and my sister's Sweet Marie Bars.

16. What is your favorite holiday tradition?

Getting together to watch the Santa Claus Parade. Reading the Christmas Nativity story and Twas the Night Before Christmas before putting the kids to bed Christmas Eve

17. What tops your tree?

Angel. We have one now that I bought the year we were married and I also have the one we had when I was a child. It sits on a special place of honour on my shelf every year.

18. Which do you prefer giving or Receiving?

I love, Love, LOVE to shop for special gifts for everyone then watch their face as they open them. Of course, I would be lying if I didn't say I love getting gifts too LOL.

19. What is your favorite Christmas Song?

I can only pick one? I can never wait til the Christmas music starts on the radios...they are all my favorites.

20. Candy Canes?

Not Christmas without them!

21. Do you feel Christmas it too commercialized? Or Is it still magical for you?

Yes, it's getting over commercialized but I think it's a choice whether to make it affect you or not. For me, Christmas is still the most magical time of the year when anything is possible and little wonders me smile in awe every day.

I think I'm like the last to do this poll so if anyone out there hasn't done it...let us know about your Christmases!

And don't forget to tell me who your favorite Reindeer is!

Who's Your Favorite Reindeer?

2006-12-05T08:46:00.000-05:00

Let's have some Christmas Fun!

In my short story, Reindeer Games, two competing reindeer farms have a number of the prancing beasts. A few even share names with Santa’s reindeer.

So, tell me, Who is your favorite reindeer?

I'll even make a contest out of it! Leave your choice on my blog or email me at contests @ stacydawn.com (no spaces) with your answer.

On December 22, I’ll post the results here on my blog and put all the names in a Santa hat to choose the winner of a mini Santa scrapbook kit.

Good luck!

And don’t forget to check out Reindeer Games, available now from The Wild Rose Press.

Click Here for more information.

ESCAPE the Mondayn: Episode #28

2006-12-03T19:13:00.000-05:00

Welcome to the Seasonal Editions of Escape the Mondayn. I'm your host, Stacy Dawn. Tis the season so for the next few weeks I'm going to be finding the Men of Christmas. So please, welcome our guest celebrity spinner today...Dylan McDermott!

Thank you and Merry Christmas, Stacy. **winks at contestants** And all you lovely ladies.

We love flirts, don't we ladies.

**sexy smile**

You may remember Dylan in the remake of A Miracle on 34th Street. Hmm, I see you already have your shirt off so we can get right to the game. Will you spin our prize wheel to see what one randomly drawn winner will win today!

You bet. Tickety-tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety...tickety...tick. It landed on a 2007 Day Planner.

**looking deliciously at Dylan** I already have my day planned. Oh, right, sorry, mind wandered. What does our Object Wheel give us today?

Tickety-tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety...tickety...tick. It landed on a candy cane.

No set-up here is there? So remember contestants, you must incorporate a Candy Cane into your entry today.

Ready everyone? Here's your escape:

It's time to reveal the secret Santa at your office Christmas party--all your co-workers are men. The last gift you get is a very large box-life sized box with gold paper and red bow. You reach out to open it and...GO!

Let yourself escape and tell me what happens next! Let your imagination run wild!

Give me two lines or give me twenty, it doesn't matter. This is all for fun so leave your doubts behind, let your fingers fly over the keyboard and don't forget to add in a Candy Cane somewhere while you let yourself...

Awesome New Blog and Resource

2006-12-03T07:17:00.000-05:00

*** Grand Opening ***
A Multi-genre, Multi-author resource for
Authors and Readers
of sweet to sensual romance.

When: December 9th ALL DAY

Where: Sweeter Romantic Notions Author Blog
http://srnauthors.blogspot.com

Who:

OWNERS
Diana Castilleja

Dayna Hart

WEB & TECH SUPPORT
Crystal Jordan

REVIEW COORDINATOR
Jennifer Leeland

CONTRIBUTORS
Emily Brevard
Elaine Cantrell
Stacy Dawn
Sara Dennis
Debora Dennis-Mills
Nell Dixon
Karen Duvall
Carol Ann Erhardt
Susan Greene
Adelle Laudan
Dana Mentink
Brieanna Robertson
Katherine Warwick
Betty Womack

Stop by and join in the festivities. Meet our incredibly talented group of Authors. There will be lots of giveaways as well as a very special announcement from our co owners for our Authors. You don't want to miss out!!

Hope to Cya there!!

Who Loves a Cowboy...

2006-11-30T08:28:00.000-05:00

YOU DO!

Proof is in the wonderful results from my Everybody Loves a Cowboy Contest! Here they are and I'll announce the winner of the contest at the end of the post!

First up some Honorable Mentions. See how many you know!

Okay, in the #3 position is a hot hunky cowboy crooner....Tim McGraw!

In the #2 spot is my personal favorite...Matthew McConaughey

And the favorite cowboy of all...#1 Clint Eastwood!

Thank you all for playing and give a big congratulations to the winner of the draw for a set of my personally designed Cow Christmas Cards...Cia Leah!

Episode# 27: And the winner is...

2006-11-29T15:22:00.000-05:00

Sorry this is late, we've had family matters to attend to this week.

And the winner is...Tara!

Congratulations! Email me for the details!

Watch tomorrow for the results of my Everyone Loves a Cowboy Contest!

And we'll see you again next week for another episode of...

ESCAPE the Mondayn: Episode # 27

2006-11-27T06:56:00.000-05:00

Welcome to the Sensibly Insane Channel for another episode of Escape the Mondayn. I'm your host, Stacy Dawn. Looking out the studio windows, it's a fabulous day for a November and here to enjoy it with us is our guest celebrity spinner....Jamie Bamber!

Thank you for inviting me, Stacy.

Oh, no problem at all. One thing though, as much as I love the tank top and those delicious arms of yours, it's gotta go. No-shirt, honey. Thems the rules.

Of course **sexy wink**

Ah yes, muuuuuuch better. Whoa, whoa, whoa, there sweetsuff! This is still a PG show, keep the towel on--for now **wicked grin**.

For those of you who don't know this sexy British hunk, you are sorely missing out. To get your fill, he plays Apollo on the new Battlestar Galactica and mmm-mmm-mmm, does a fine job of it too!

**boyish grin** Thank you, Stacy.

Well, let's get down to business and show off some of those biceps for us. Will you spin our prize wheel to see what one randomly drawn winner will win today!

Of course. Tickety-tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety...tickety...tick. It landed on a 2007 Calendar.

Ah yes, to write down the times for your show so as not to miss it LOL. And what does our Object Wheel give us today?

Tickety-tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety...tickety...tick. It landed on wings.

Wings? Interesting. So remember contestants, you must incorporate Wings into your entry today.

Ready everyone? Here's your escape:

You're friend has guilted you into working for the Community Carnival this year--the dirt on you is embarrasing enough that, at the last minute, you agreed to play the magician's assistant. With no time to practice, you struggle into the sparkly little dress, which you swear you will get even with your friend for in the very near future. The act is announced but there is no sign of the magician and you are being pushed on stage. Suddenly misty smoke fills the hardwood and you raise your eyes to see an image lowering from the ceiling...GO!

Let yourself escape and tell me what happens next! Let your imagination run wild!

Give me two lines or give me twenty, it doesn't matter. This is all for fun so leave your doubts behind, let your fingers fly over the keyboard and don't forget to add inWings somewhere while you let yourself...

And catch me Tuesday at Word Flirts for some more sensibly insane musings!

How much does Holidays affect your Writing?

2006-11-24T08:41:00.000-05:00

So the holiday season has officially started. Between family gathering, school plays, company Christmas parties, shopping, baking, cooking, and oh yes, the usual housecleaning etc etc etc...how much writing do you get done?

Does the jolly season help inspire you or are too many things going on in real life to keep up with our imaginary friends?

Personally, I'm half and half (I'm a Libra, what can I say?) The stories are always in my head playing around, sorting themselves out and I try to take time to write but I also know that I won't get half as much done this month as others.

What about you?

Fun and Snowy Games!!

2006-11-22T08:44:00.000-05:00

This is it from me until probably next spring so I hope you enjoy it!!

Reindeer Games

The annual Reindeer Games between the Holloran and the Nickles families is legendary in their little town of Noelle, Alberta. This year, however, the competition gets kicked up a notch when Jess Holloran discovers winning the games may just mean losing her heart.

Available starting TODAY from The Wild Rose Press!

It's a fun and frolicky Christmas tale about knowing someone forever but suddenly seeing them for the first time.

Episode #26: And the winner is...

2006-11-21T13:59:00.000-05:00

Can you say Snowball! The reason the winner announcement is delayed is because I thought I'd do a quick clean up this morning in preparation for putting up the holiday decorations...ooops. I started moving things around then had to move other things to make room for them then other things to make room for the things I had to move...yeah, you get the drift. Now I have umpteen piles on the floor that need to find a home and/or be taken to the local Goodwill.

Okay, the names are going into the santa hat (which I found at the bottom of the toybox, obviously it was missed with last years put aways and is ready to be used again LOL)

And the winner is...Carol Ann!!

Congratulations! Email me at contests @ stacydawn.com (no spaces) so I can get your prize in the mail.

Thank you everyone who played. I love how it went back and forth between new and continuing sagas!

Hope to see you all next week for another resounding episode of ...

ESCAPE the Mondayn: Episode #26

2006-11-20T07:33:00.000-05:00

Welcome to another episode of Escape the Mondayn, here on the Sensibly Insane Channel. I'm your host, Stacy Dawn.

Please give a big round of applause for our guest celebrity spinner today....Chrisian Bale!

Thank you, Stacy.

Mmmm, could you say that again. I miss your sexy accent when you play all those American boys in your movies.

Would be my pleasure. **sexy grin and a wink** Thank you, Stacy.

Now, let's get a better look at that lovely physique of yours too. Will you spin our prize wheel to see what one randomly drawn winner will win today!

Of course. Tickety-tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety...tickety...tick. It landed on a notecard set.

Notecards? Hmmm, how's your penmanship there Christian?

Perhaps I'll have to write you a love-note so you can see for yourself.

**picks up notecards to fan herself** Yes, well, you just might. For now, how about spinning the Object wheel.

Tickety-tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety...tickety...tick. It landed on a red sharpie marker.

Interesting. So remember contestants, you must incorporate a Red Sharpie Marker into your entry today. To mix things back up, we are playing the origional game so everyone is on their own and here's your escape:

You've spent the past hour waiting for your blind date to show at the fancy restaurant HE chose. The breadsticks are gone and you have just enough money in your purse to pay for the three glasses of wine you consumed--or is that fumed--while waiting. Slamming your napkin on the table you rise to leave...GO!

Let yourself escape and tell me what happens next! Let your emotions run wild!

Give me two lines or give me twenty, it doesn't matter. This is all for fun so leave your doubts behind, let your fingers fly over the keyboard and don't forget to add in a WRENCH somewhere while you let yourself...

I LOVE a Parade!

2006-11-19T13:59:00.000-05:00

This is an awesome week because of parades! Today we'll watch the Toronto Santa Claus Parade then the Macy's Day Parade on Thursday.

The Toronto one is over 100 years old now! We make it a family event with hot chocolate and special treats while we wait excitedly for the new floats and of course Santa Claus rockin' along at the end. It's so much fun and is the real start of the Christmas season for me.

Do you watch the parades or participate in local ones??

Save a Horse, Read a Cowboy

2006-11-17T19:29:00.000-05:00

It's finally out and I can't say how much I love this story...okay, yes it's mine but it was fun to write and funny to read and has a bit of a surprise ending.

Cheatin’ Hearts

When a mysterious Stetson plunked on her head leads Cara North to a chocolate-eyed cowboy, will she find true love or just another lyin’ cheatin’ heart?

Available now from The Wild Rose Press

What People are saying (and no, they aren't related to me LOL):

I loved it! It was cute and funny and surprising and I loved it, hands down loved it.

~R.P.

I love it! I laughed out loud at the husband's comments. It's so real and funny!

~R.J.M.

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You know me, there has to be a contest and there is....check out the previous post for the Everybody loves a Cowboy contest!

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Everybody Loves A Cowboy Contest!

2006-11-14T16:18:00.000-05:00

How can you resist a hot, hunky, cowboy and that’s just what you’ll find in my TWO November releases, Cheatin’ Hearts and Reindeer Games.

To enter the contest, all you have to do is tell me who your favorite cowboy is: Is he real? Is he in a movie? In a book? Tell me who and where we can all find him!

Leave a comment on my blog or email your entry to contests @ stacydawn.com (no spaces) with the subject line Cowboys.

On November 30th, I’ll post some of the entries—who, where, and pictures if I can of these hot cowboys plus randomly pick an entry to win a special gift pack of my personally designed Christmas Cow postcards—perfect to send to friends or family for the holiday season!

Note: By entering, you consent to the display of your comment on my blog should yours be chosen for posting on November 30th, 2006. Credit and/or links will be posted with each chosen comment.

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Don't forget to check below for the winner of yesterday's ESCAPE the Mondayn

Episode #25: And the winner is....

2006-11-14T16:16:00.000-05:00

Okay, putting all the names in the red fireman hat!

And the winner is...Sarah!! Congratulations! Email me so I can get you your Hugh Jackman Prize!!

Thanks everyone for playing and we'll see you again next week for another episode of...

ESCAPE the Mondayn: Episode # 25

2006-11-13T00:13:00.000-05:00

We're back. The studio's technical difficulties seem to be resolved so let me welcome you to another episode of Escape the Mondayn, the blogesphere's best gameshow!! I'm your host, Stacy Dawn, and felt like wearing something black and sassy today for our guest celebrity spinner.

Who is it you ask? Someone with three films out, and one where all you hear is his sexy voice. Please give a big round of applause for....Hugh Jackman!

Thank you. And thank you, Stacy.

Oh no, thank you! I love returning guests; they're quick to obey the rules and the towel...well, it's definitely a nice addition.

**sexy grin and a wink**

And three movies out! My but you are HOT right now **aside to the contestants** and I'm feeling a little warm myself **wink**

First up is Flushed Away, The Prestige, and coming soon to theatres, The Fountain. Can't wait! Maybe you could give me a private screening after the show?

Would be my pleasure. **wicked grin**

Great...let's get this show on the road then! Will you spin our prize wheel to see what one randomly drawn winner will win today!

Sure. Here goes. Tickety-tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety...tickety...tick. It landed on a...**laughs**...a, uh...am I reading this right?

Yep, go ahead.

The prize is a minature statue of me?

Yes...well, one of your characters I should say. Which one? Well now, that's the surprize isn't it but I'll tell you that it is almost life-size LOL.

Okay, now please spin the Object wheel for us.

Tickety-tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety...tickety...tick. It landed on a wrench.

Wonderful. So remember contestants, you must incorporate a WRENCH into your entry today. To mix things back up, we are playing the origional game so everyone is on their own and here's your escape:

Wrapping your scarf tighter around your neck, you brave the busy parking lot of the mall planning to get a head start on your Christmas Shopping. Not really liking the idea, you put it off for a few more minutes by detouring towards the corner Starbucks. A shadow drowns the sun and next thing you know, you're wearing a mocha double latte--extra foam...GO!

Let yourself escape and tell me what happens next!

Give me two lines or give me twenty, it doesn't matter. This is all for fun so leave your doubts behind, let your fingers fly over the keyboard and don't forget to add in a WRENCH somewhere while you let yourself...

And catch me at Word Flirts on Tuesday for some more Sensibly Insane Musings!

Still up for Grabs

2006-11-12T12:45:00.000-05:00

The Bookthong is still up for grabs! I'm looking for a nickname for a guy. He's the hero so nothing sleazy.

His name is Warren, which is the same as his father and grandfather which is one reason I want a nickname and also for a bit of the storyline. His in the advertising business at the promotional end bringing the ad ideas to life. He's hot (of course), great smile, everyone likes him type guy which makes him good at his job because he can get almost anyone to do anything ( I say almost because obviously the heroine isn't going to do what he wants LOL)

I'm looking for something like Chip, Ford, Slick, Red, etc but I won't know it until I see it so

HELP PLEASE!!!!

If I pick your nickname...I'll send you a Bookthong!

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A Must Have!

2006-11-10T14:27:00.000-05:00

It's In His Kiss
Johanna Melaragno

Is it possible to fall in love with someone without ever having seen their face? Emma Long didn’t think so, until she met Tyler Maxwell in an online cooking chat room.

Tyler knows in his heart Emma is the woman for him – he’s already in love with her and he could care less what she looks like – but she isn’t so convinced. Tyler proposes a meeting in Las Vegas, without exchanging pictures before hand. Emma is worried they won’t meet but Tyler believes their souls will lead them to each other. “And how do we know it’s real?” Emma asks. Tyler responds, “It’s in the kiss.”

Available Now from The Wild Rose Press

Now I admit I might be a bit partial because Johanna is my cp but honestly, this is a fantastic story. One scene literally has me shivering with Emma every time I read it.

You'll definitely want to add this to your TBR pile!

Naming Names

2006-11-10T09:33:00.000-05:00

So, I've started a new project and I found something very interesting already. I'm having a problem with names.

Do you find that you gravitate towards the same names for your heroes or heroines? I do. I don't mean to but when I first think up a story certain names for certain types of characters always pop up. Heroes for instance, maybe it's because I find certain names stronger than others and Heroines, certain names softer or sassier depending on the character traits I'll be writing about. Then sometimes they just pop up maybe because they are fresh in my mind. An example would be my Christmas story. I named the hero Ryan, it fit, I liked it everything worked. Until I got the info sheets for my contest story back and realized I forgot I named that heroine Kelsey Ryan. Two stories too close together to keep the name so I had to change his. I hate changing names half way through a story because they've already grown on you like that.

The same think happened last night while I was making notes. The same names kept popping up and I'd be no, I used that already, or no that name is for the hero in a story that's half done but I really do want to finish someday.

So, I've heard about and I think it's about time I made a character name list of the ones I've used already. Like I'm sure a lot of you have, I have a dozen or more half finished, outlined, or in-the-work wips that also deter certain names from popping up again. I figure I'll add all these to the list that way I can have a quick reference of what I've already used or a quick place to switch names around if I find I want to.

On this topic, I could also use a bit of help. There is a Bookthong in it for one lucky person too! I need a nickname for a guy. This is all still waring in my head so bare with me. He's a kind of ad man who sets up things like the photography sessions and hiring of the 'right look' for the campaigns he works on. He's not sleazy but for other reasons, I need him to have a nickname instead of using his real name. ie: Chip, Cutter, Kip, Jet, Ford, Fletch...things like these but I've already dismissed these as not right. I know, not much to work with but at the same time it leaves it wide open so just give me anything that strikes your mind. If I pick yours, I'll send you a bookthong! Thanks

Matchmaker, Matchmaker, Who made a Match?

2006-11-09T08:09:00.000-05:00

First, let me apologize for the delay of this post but now onto the fun!

Here are just a few of the entries from my Matchmaker, Matchmaker Contest and the winner too.

Ellie Lewis:

A departure from the norm, for me was an idea to get this friend together with my sister. Both were available and both were artists, that is he was an artist and my sister had an MFA from university and taught art in high school.

The man was so charming, witty and a genuinely good hearted person who deserved an appreciative partner. My sister was alone and this man could elevate her spirits. It seemed to me like destiny when I thought about it.

They were both hesitant and I felt that they could both benefit from this relationship.
Finally they met and so far so good. They have a great deal in common and are the same age bracket as well. Only good things have I heard and the rest as they say time will tell.

Karen Erickson:

Me and my friend were bored at work one day so we checked out all the guys' butts. There were a lot of guys at my work so we had a big selection to choose from. She found one butt in particular she "fancied," but she didn't know who's it was - she thought it was a customer's. He turned around and it was a guy we worked with! So my other friend and I worked our magic and got them together at opportune times. At a party, at a baseball game, etc. They've been married for four years now! Yay! My only success.

A.A.:

I matched up 2 friends about 25 years ago.

He liker her.

She didn't like him.

She changed her mind.

Got together.

Big romance.

Married.

2 kids.

25 years later, i.e. now

Still married.

Hate each other.

Both kind enough to not hold it against me.

I won't do that again soon.

Billie:

Almost four years ago my husband was training a student driver at a trucking company. He was complaining about being single as was my sister-in-law. Hubby and I were tired of hearing it so we introduced them hoping for a few days of freedom. Although with his career their relationship has been a rocky one, they have been married for just over 2 years and are very happy.

Joel Berger:

Being a matchmaker requires a good combination of perseverence, patience and intuition. I try to understand why I became involved with this sideline but it eludes me. When a friend of mine became newly single I thought that it was time for her to meet someone whom I deemed suitable. The man in question was a successful businessman, who had charisma, looks, money and kindness. Just about perfection, if that were possible. She was game so I felt relieved. These two met for dinner and were immediately interested in each other. She clued me in on his history and it sounded great. Further dates followed which were a total success and I was so pleased to hear that the result of all my efforts had not been in vain.

They are still dating and I am hoping that this will result in a definite commitment for both of these wonderful people.

And the randomly drawn winner of the Matching Stationary Set is....Billie! Congratulations! Email me for the details Billie.

Thank you to everyone who entered!

Thank you

2006-11-07T16:28:00.000-05:00

I want to send out a heartfelt thank you to each and every one of you for your care and concern over me.

Most of the problems have been taken care of and on top of all of them, the telephone company crossed our line with someone else's effectively cancelling both of them out. Then I got a run-around for when it would be fixed leaving me three days without a phone and having to use the computer line to wait for all the other important calls we were expecting. It was a mess, I'll leave it at that.

For now, we are warm and I'm a little less stressed.

It truly touched me to know what wonderful friends I've made on line.

Quick Post

2006-11-03T15:35:00.000-05:00

We've been having a lot of issues at home this week hence the short or non-existant posts. Not a fun, nor warm time trust me. I don't know if I'll get back before the gameshow next Monday (don't worry, I'll try not to let you down).

For now, you can have a fun glimpse of Christmas with my latest cover:

Reindeer Games

The annual Reindeer Games between the Holloran and the Nickles families is legendary in their little town of Noelle, Alberta. This year, however, the competition gets kicked up a notch when Jess Holloran discovers winning the games may just mean losing her heart.

If you like snowballs and Cowboys, you're gonna love Reindeer Games!

Coming soon from The Wild Rose Press

Episode #24: And the winner is...

2006-11-01T16:29:00.000-05:00

All the contestant names have been put into the red fireman's hat and the winner is....Jen!

Congratulations! Email me for the detail of how to get your prize!

Thanks to all the other contestants and we'll see you again next week with another episode of...

ESCAPE The Mondayn: Episode #24

2006-10-30T08:11:00.000-05:00

Hello and welcome to a Halloween episode of ESCAPE the Mondayn found only on the Sensibly Insane Channel. I'm your host, Good Witch Stacy and we have lots of tricks and lots of treats for you today. The first one is a treat by making this a TWO DAY event while I celebrate Halloween Tuesday at Word Flirts. The second treat is our special guest spinner...Joe Worthington!

If any of you are wondering why you haven't seen this hunky man before then you have yet to visit our Romance Bistro. His celebrity status is growing in leaps and bounds!

I hope nobody minds that you're doing double billing today, Joe.

Not to worry, Stacy. I can do both.

I know, you are so **wide grin** multi-talented. One of the main reasons the other hostesses and myself hired you. I can see you're getting ready for the "no-shirt" rule for the show so why don't you finish there then go spin our Prize wheel to see what treat one lucky contestant could win today.

As you wish.

**wicked grin** Now do you see why we hired him

Tickety-tickety-tickety-tickety....tickety-tickety-tickety....tickety-tickety....tickety...tick. It landed on Belly Button Costume Jewelry.

Ooooh, staying in the theme, I love it. Now move those to-drool-over arms to the Object wheel and let's see what the trick is today. What needs to be incorporated into the escape?

Tickety-tickety-tickety-tickety....tickety-tickety-tickety....tickety-tickety....tickety...tick. A broomstick.

LOL. There you have it ladies. Make sure as we go through you add a Broomstick to your comments.

Okay, we're going to carry over another trick from last week. It worked out so well that I think we'll do the round robin style again! Continue on from the previous person's post and keep adding to our created story.

Ready? Here's your escape:

The wind just crawled it's creepy fingers over the nape of your neck as you stand huddled in your black cloak at a bus-stop. Thanks to the shoe-faced mechanic, your car is currently sitting in the garage a block away leaving you all dressed up in costume but no way to get to the party....GO!

Let yourself escape and tell me what happens next! Where are you going? What are you wearing? Don't forget to add onto what the person ahead of you wrote and don't forget to add the Broomstick into one of the continued comments! Give me two lines or give me twenty, it doesn't matter just open up and let yourself....

Remember, this is a TWO DAY event so I'll see you Tuesday at Word Flirts!

Sick and Reviewed

2006-10-27T16:49:00.000-04:00

No, thank goodness it wasn't a sick review LOL. Diana Castilleja reviewed my short short SOLD! and gave it 4 Roses. You can read the review here on Diana's Reviews.

But yes, the whole family is down with colds. Thankfully the woodstove is fixed so we have a cozy fire going.

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How Long Have You Known?

2006-10-26T08:51:00.000-04:00

How long have you known you wanted to write romance? Maybe that's not quite right. More, take a jog down memory lane--is there anything there that NOW you look at with a little hmmmmm thought.

I'm on this because--and don't ask me where or why this memory came up, my mind doesn't have logistics in these matters lol--last night I remembered a certain event....OH I know why!!! Okay, backtracking a moment. I watched America's Top Model last night because they were doing Romance book covers as a shoot. Before this though, Tyra Banks said she dabbled in photography and took a shoot of the girls in black and white--this is what brought the old memory up because I used to photography in highschool and had this assignment in black and white.

Okay, we're caught up now in the thought process (at least I am, don't worry if it's still confusing LOL) So, this assignment I got up the nerve to ask a guy (G. L.) in my class to help me. Now, this is the funny part for me because A) Can you say Shy Violett/Wall Flower? I still can't believe I asked him B) Can you say HOT? He was OH MAN, was he hot with arms to drool over and C) The topic of the photographs.

So, here's my point if you are wondering what the heck I'm talking about. At that time I didn't think anything of it but now that I look back, it was a "photograph" if you will to my future. I used G.L.'s arms/hands for my photograph at the time against a black background. Maybe he even started my obsession with muscular arms. They are by far my favorite piece of the male anatomy along with the eyes. Also, I had him hold roses, crush roses, have the petals drop from his hand etc. In depth thinking here would tell me that way back then I was facinated with Romance and trying to express it in a creative manner. Then, I used photography, now, I use the written word.

So, how long have you known you were into romance? Instead of thinking to the moment of revelation in your life, can you see back to a time that you might not have been thinking Romance but your actions hinted at your future? I know, I'm pulling deep here today, walks down memory lane do that to me. Hmm, I wonder what G. L. is doing theses days?

Cheatin' Hearts

2006-10-25T08:36:00.000-04:00

I just got this in last night, the cover for my cowboy story, Cheatin' Hearts. I was so stoked because it takes place in a honkey-tonk so I thought the jukebox just perfect!!

Cheatin’ Hearts

When a mysterious Stetson plunked on her head leads Cara North to a chocolate-eyed cowboy, will she find true love or just another lyin’ cheatin’ heart?

Coming soon from The Wild Rose Press

The Hero and Heroine go head to head in a funny first meeting and watch out for another twist in the tale!!

Collecting People for Research

2006-10-24T10:08:00.000-04:00

I thought this a truly phenomenal idea and I think Sue explained it best on her blog:

"The other day Sharon posted a valuable tip that is useful for any type of writer, published or not. Sharon explains that she has a file where she keeps a list of everybody she knows with a note of their past or current experiences, who could one day become precious contacts for research purposes.What an inspired idea! As a result, Caroline suggested to Sharon that she should tag five other writers to share their experiences, who could then tag other writers, and before we know it we'll all have possible contacts we can use when we need to research.Great idea or what?! "

Sue and a couple others tagged me with this so here goes--A few things you might not know about me:

I worked as a children's photographer for ten years, in retail for ages, and my husband is currently a local retail manager for one of the larger chain stores

I've had one cesarean birth and one natural

My other hobbies include folk art, painting, crochet, darts, and I've designed of humorous greeting cards called Holmes' Herd featuring farm animals (a few can be seen at Stacy's Gift Shop--I'm still working on the set up for the store)

I'm serious when I say I have a sports-aholic husband...need to know a sports fact, he knows it, can get it, can find it LOL

I doodle...a lot.

Message from Sharon:

"PLEASE LEAVE THE FOLLOWING IN ALL "PEOPLE COLLECTION" POSTS:

Remember that it isn't always the sensational stuff that writers are looking for, it can just as easily be something that you take for granted like having raised twins or knowing how to grow beetroot. Mind you, if you know how to fly a helicopter or have worked as a film extra, do feel free to let the rest of us know about it :-) "May I also add to that - if there are any doctors or midwives out there (including students), please let me know ;-)

I'm going to tag Stephanie, Mary, Lee, Lora, and Melissa.

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Come on over and join the Romance Bistro! (sign up on the left hand side there)
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Episode #23: And the winner is...

2006-10-24T08:44:00.000-04:00

All the names are going into the red fireman's hat and our 3ft producer is picking a name...

And the winner is....Zinnia!

Congratulations! Email me for the details so I can get your Book Thong in the mail!

Thanks to all the contestants and we'll see you next week for another episode of...

ESCAPE the Mondayn: Episode #23

2006-10-23T12:03:00.000-04:00

Welcome to another episode of ESCAPE the Mondayn, a weekly game show found only on the Sensibly Insane Channel. I'm your host, Stacy Dawn, and am so happy you could join us. Hmmm, our 23rd episode on the 23rd of October, I wonder if that's lucky.

I think it is.

Ooooh, hello Paul! Everyone, welcome our celebrity guest spinner for today...Paul Walker.

First things first there handsome, the shirt's gotta go. Can't be hiding those six packs for our contestants now.

**takes it off veeerrry slowly** Better.

Much.

Pay attention everyone, we're mixing the game up today! Just for today we are going to play as a group. (unless you tell me you really liked this then we can try it again)

How it works: I will give you an escape like normal but what I would like everyone to do is CONTINUE the story from the previous person's comment. A round robin if you will. A few sentences each to see how far we can get.

Paul, how about putting those lovely arms to use and seeing what one lucky randomly drawn contestant could win today.

You got it. Tickety-tickety-tickety-tickety....tickety-tickety-tickety....tickety-tickety...tickety...tick. It landed on a Thong...oh, sorry, a Book Thong **sly grin*

Mmm, hmmm, right. And the Object Wheel today shows us?

Tickety-tickety-tickety-tickety....tickety-tickety-tickety....tickety-tickety...tickety...tick. It's a can opener.

Okay then, remember at some point in this game someone has to incorporate a CAN OPENER into the escape....but go ahead and add it more often if the inspiration strikes.

Ready, here's your escape:

You are sitting outside at a little bistro table enjoying your double latte when the chair beside you scrapes the cement and a handsome stranger sits down. His blue eyes stare at you intently. "I need you to do me a favour.".....GO.

Let yourself escape and tell me what happens next! REMEMBER each comment should continue from the last and somewhere in the story we need a Can Opener. Give me two sentences or give me twenty, it doesn't matter just let yourself go and...

Check this Out!

2006-10-21T14:09:00.000-04:00

Wow, so much has been going on in the past few days that my mind is spinning.

First, a wonderful young lady named Veronika Denim asked to interview me about e-books. To say I was thrilled would be an understatement because she has interviewed a number of BIG authors at Veronika Asks. This girl is going places! You can read the interview Here.

Second, I invite you all to the Romance Bistro:

Sit down, make yourself comfortable, and grab a cup of Joe. Or, grab a real Joe if you'd like. Romance Bistro is a laid back place where six lovely romance writers come to talk about books, movies, hotties, or anything else on our minds. Here you'll find blurbs, excerpts, contests, and great conversation. Your bistro hostesses are Kelley Vitollo, Anne Rainey, Stacy Dawn, Emma Sinclair, Rene Lyons, and Megan Rose. Joe, our waiter is at your beck and call while you are with us. We hope you enjoy and thanks for visiting Romance Bistro...where hot coffee and hot men are always on the menu...what's your order?

I'll be putting up a link on the left side here for anyone who'd like to take a break and pop on over. And spread the word that there's a new place in town that serves up Love on a platter!

Lastly, but definitely not least, I just got word from my editor that she wants to contract my Christmas story...WOOOHOOO!

Hope your weekend is going great! Don't forget to check out my previous post to enter my brand new contest!

Matchmaker, Matchmaker

2006-10-20T12:00:00.000-04:00

Available Today!

A Matching Fancy

At her niece’s wedding, Margaret is convinced she’s long past the excitement of young love. Can an outspoken guest with a matching fancy prove her wrong?

Available Now from The Wild Rose Press.

Matchmaker, Matchmaker Contest

My short story, A Matching Fancy, involves a persistent matchmaker so I’d like to hear if you have ever matched two people up or if you yourself have ever been at the tail end of a matchmaker’s scheme.

Leave a comment or e-mail your entry to me at contests @ stacydawn.com (no spaces) by November 7th, 2006.

Visit my blog on November 8th when I’ll post some of the stories and randomly pick one entry to win a matching stationary set!

Note: By entering, you consent to the display of your entry on my blog should your story be chosen for posting on November 8th, 2006. Credit and/or links will be posted with each comment unless requested not to do so.

The Voices are Quiet

2006-10-19T08:24:00.000-04:00

The voices are quiet. Is this a good thing or a bad thing? And it doesn't bother me at the moment...is this a good thing or a bad thing?
I submitted my Christmas piece the other day. A friend asked the question last night about what I was working on next. I said I had a number of ideas but not sure which one to go with. Also being a writer, she gave the logical answer, write whichever characters are talking to you the most.

Well, that stopped me because the only answer I could give was no one is talking to me. The ideas are there but no Characters are jumping out and saying Pick me! Pick me! I'm of two minds on this: relieved for a bit of a break and a little nervous of the possibility they won't come back.

I've chosen not to worry about it for a week at least then see who hopefully comes knocking on the door. I plan to do some housework and READ! I always have a book going but I've stared at the novel above the couch for the last two weeks without cracking the spine yet. Today is an icky rainy wet perfect to cuddle up with a book day so that's what I plan to do.

Pain in the Sleep

2006-10-18T08:38:00.000-04:00

I'm kinda carrying this over from Emma's post yesterday. I didn't mean to and if I could I would probably try to blame her for it but more than likely it is just my annoying subconcious because of the time of year.

She spoke yesterday about having boring dreams...you know, no sexy guys, no one chasing you, nothing happening except things you would do during the day anyway.

Well, last night I had one of my recurring dreams about a former job. It's not recurring in that it's the same dream but always about the same job. It was a busy crazy job when I had to live through it and I don't appreciate my mind wandering back to those days. Last night in the dream, I was on my own, whoever worked before me had left a mess and no film in the camera. All the old frustrations came back and it would have been okay but I worked there for over ten years which means it is so ingraned in my subconcious that when I wake up there is that half a minute when I seriously think I have to go to work or was already there. So I wake up frustrated, tired, and in a bad mood...I hate that.
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Don't forget to check below to see who won yesterdays episode! Hmmmm, somehow I feel a lot better just staring at Victor
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Episode #22: And the winner is...

2006-10-18T08:29:00.000-04:00

All the names are going into the red fireman hat...the undersized producers are picking a name...and the winner is...Jodie!

Congratulations! Email me and I'll get your Hand Beaded Bracelet out to you in the mail!

Thank you all for playing and drooling over Victor. Hope to see you next week for another episode of...

ESCAPE the Mondayn: Episode # 22

2006-10-16T00:03:00.000-04:00

Welcome to a lazy morning episode of ESCAPE the Mondayn. I'm your host Stacy Dawn and like an added cozy blanket, this will be a TWO DAY episode while I flirt over at Word Flirts on Tuesday.

What's with all the drool on the floor, ladies? Ooooh, guess what the cat just dragged in from my dressing room. Dreamy isn't he.

Please welcome our guest spinner for today....Victor Webster!

**bedroom eyes sweep her up and down** Good morning, Stacy.

I'll say. **runs her own eyes up and down his sun-kissed skin** We're Charmed you could be here today.

I'm feeling all sated and wonderfully lethargic today so why don't we get the game started so we can go crawl back under the sheets.

How does breakfast in bed sound?

Mmm-mmm-good. Now that you've got my mouth watering, why don't you head on over and spin the prize wheel and tell us what one lucky contestant could win today.

Tickety-tickety-tickety-tickety....tickety-tickety-tickety....tickety-tickety...tickety...tick. It landed on a Hand Beaded Bracelet.

Very nice...I'll show it to you up close and personal-like back in the dressing room, Victor. Now give these ladies one more thing to sigh over and flex your gorgeous arms to spin the Object wheel.

Tickety-tickety-tickety-tickety....tickety-tickety-tickety....tickety-tickety...tickety...tick. This one landed on a pillow.

Just what I would like myself right now so here's your escape:

You are at the top of a ski-hill looking down the slope. The sun is shining off the snow when all of a sudden a large shadow blocks the light...GO.

Let yourself escape and tell me what happens next? Don't forget to add in a pillow to your entry! Give me two lines or give me twenty, it doesn't matter just open up your mind and...

Remember, I'll be at Word Flirts on Tuesday for anyone who wants to stop by and say hi!

It Was Well Worth It.

2006-10-14T08:00:00.000-04:00

Remember those first two weeks of September when I was buried deep in the revision cave with the story that I literally had to sit on the floor to cut paste together?

It was well worth it.

I just found out the story, Love Floats, won in the Sweetheart line of The Wild Rose Press's Premiere Spring Bouquet Contest! Woohoo! It will be put into an anthology with the winners from the other lines in ebook form AND PRINT next year.

Yipeeeee!

Love Floats

Garden landscaper, Kelsey Ryan, is surprised to find her current client doesn’t have any land. Yet the challenge isn’t in creating a deck garden for his houseboat, but in keeping the hunky graphic artist from growing on her, especially when she thinks the garden is for his wedding day. Will a few marigolds and misunderstandings leave her matchless...or make her his first mate?

Like Brrrrrrr

2006-10-13T13:05:00.000-04:00

Okay, I put the picture of the squirell one day too early or jinxed the weather....snow when I woke up this morning. Yikes, I wasn't ready for that.

So guess what I did all morning? Dug out the vacuum and flashlight and cleaned out all the vents so we could turn the furnace on (why I didn't do this on the weekend in the warm weather and while I was cleaning the rest of the house still annoys me). Then guess what happened? It started but shut off? Then guess what happened? The basement fire-alarm went off. Oh, yeah. It's been a great day so far. No smoke or anything when I checked so who knows why the fire-alarm went off but with two young children in the house it did freak me out a bit. Hubby came home from work to check the furnace and got it going etc.

Oh! And the winners of the Book Thongs are Sue aka Ms.Creativity and Emma Sinclair! Send me an email with your address and I'll get them in the mail to you!

Hope you are all staying warm!
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I'm Cold

2006-10-12T11:22:00.000-04:00

Brrrr.

It's cold here today. Not freezing really but the kind that creeps under your skin and tells you winter is definitly on the way. Of course it doesn't help that I'm writing a story that takes place outside during winter.

So to warm me up, I'm going to make a big pot of soup and give something away. Yes, it's about time for another Quickie!

Can you tell me something funny that happened to you or some funny thing you've heard of in the cold weather? I figure laughing will help warm me up. I'll randomly pick two names from the comments today and send them a Book Thong.

Hope your day is warmer!
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What's Your First Move?

2006-10-11T06:19:00.000-04:00

Okay, it's time to have a little fun to see the results and find out the winner of my What's your first move? Contest. Again I am so glad I made it a random draw; I would hate to have to pick and choose from these great stories!

Here are just a few:

Melissa Marsh

Ok - I'm almost ashamed to admit this, but I was out at a dance club one night and had had a few too many beers. I saw this guy that I'd had my eye on for awhile and went over to him. As there was nowhere to sit, he jokingly asked me to sit on his lap and I didn't hesitate a second and sat down.Funny - we've now been married seven years.

Johanna

I was too shy for first moves but I have to share the most original line I've ever heard. One of my husband's employees (he didn't know I was married to the boss at the time) came up to me and said "you have really beautiful eyebrows". He then asked if I would go out with him to "discuss my grooming techniques". I politely told him I was married but I couldn't get that line out of my head. Obviously it still sticks. lol

Jennah

I've never made the first move unless you count making sure I was in the right place at the right time. I pretty much followed a hot guy around until he asked me out. We've been married eleven years now.

Kelly

When I was 16, I knew this guy had a crush on me. One night after work, he was staring at me and I turned, looked at him, and said "You going to stare at me all night or do you think you'll get around to kissing me some time soon." It worked. And it was well worth it.

Lee Morrison

I can think up lots of great first lines, but I've always been too shy to use any of them. Then one day, the situation sort of took care of itself for me, lol. I don't really talk about this often, but here's a cute/embarrassing story that fits in with today's theme.

One day I was at work in the lab and I had to hand deliver some critical value patient results I'd been working on to the ER because the computers were down. When I first saw "blue eyes", he had his head bent, looking at a patient chart, sitting at the nurse's station. He had a stethoscope draped around his neck, like all nurses do, and he looked very preoccupied as he looked up at me over the top of his glasses that were perched precariously half way down his nose. I thought he had the most beautiful blue eyes, surrounded with thick dark lashes I'd ever seen.

I had no idea who he was. Had never seen him before. I announced that I had critical results for the doc. Another nurse stepped up to the counter, as close as she could get to "blue eyes" in what appeared almost like a protective move, but he just sat motionless, silently gazing at me, pen poised in left hand above the chart he'd been writing on, and pinned me in place with his scrutiny. My knees turned to rubber, my face flushed (I rarely blush) and this instant insidious, perplexing heat swept over my body, making me feel like I had a raging inferno blazing inside me.

The witchy nurse snatched the results from my fingertips and shoved them underneath "blue eyes'" nose. "Take a look at this."

"I am," he said with a wicked grin, never breaking eye contact with me.

My mouth dropped open. My brow broke out in a sweat. I couldn't talk. I tried to smile but I felt like my face was frozen. I had a bad case of tunnel vision and the edges of my world literally faded as I stared at him.I finally pulled myself together and realized the witch was now watching us with curiosity. Since I am required to document the name of the person I hand deliver results to, I was forced to ask for a name. He informally gave me his first name. Steve. OK. Nice enough name. I wasn't off the hook yet though. Hospital policy required me to document both a first and a last name. When he told me, he gaged my reaction with calculated neutrality and watched the recognition play across my face with amusement. It was the same name I'd seen in the computer that day (before it crashed) attached to all the physician orders coming from the ER.

"Hey Doc," the nurse interrupted.

I profoundly embarrassed because I tried to write his name on my notes and my hand was shaking...noticeably, and then I registered the way she'd addressed him. When I looked up, he pinned me with those eyes again and smiled. I backed away from the counter and said, "I'll be in the lab if you need anything else." OMG! Did I just say that? It came out sounding like a come on and I really was only trying to escape.

He nodded. His entire demeanor sparked with mischief. My cheeks flamed a deeper red and I practically ran out of the ER and back to the safety of my familiar lab.He found me later that evening in the lab. We chatted a little and he asked if we could talk again. A year and a half later we were married. It was awkward at best, but that's the first move story for us.

((Okay, I still get tingles reading that one))

And now for the winner of a download of my story Sold! and an Electronic Fortune Teller is...Melissa Marsh!

Congratulations! Send me an e-mail and I'll give you the details!

Thanks again to everyone who participated!!
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It's a Date

2006-10-10T09:08:00.000-04:00

**Stacy rolling onto her office chair**

Oh, I'm stuffed. Thanksgiving supper turned out good last night! To be honest, I rather like our early Thanksgiving Day because it gives us more time to recoup before Christmas dinner LOL.

Speaking of being thankful...I received two wonderful e-mails yesterday. One from my publisher giving me my release date for A Matching Fancy...October 20th!

I dedicated it to my parents. Last night my mom read the galley and I almost had her crying. Not because it is a sad story but because it was actually inspired by them and there is a bit of them within the story that she recognized.

The second email was from my editor who loved the cowboy story....YEEHAW!!! I'll keep you posted on the date and cover for it.

Oh, speaking of covers! I can't wait for you all to see the one for my full length novel, Wanna Make A Bet?. OMG it's perfect. I'm just waiting for the final copy so I can post it for you to see.

It was a good weekend....how did your weekend go?
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Episode #21

2006-10-10T09:03:00.000-04:00

All the names have gone into the Thanksgiving bucket and the winner is....Ellie!

Congratulations. Email me with your address and I'll mail the thong...er book thong out to you.

Thank you to all the contestants and the wishes for a good Thanksgiving. We'll see you all next week on the same Senibly Insane Channel for another episode of ....

ESCAPE the Mondayn: Episode #21

2006-10-09T12:02:00.000-04:00

Welcome to our Canadian Thanksgiving episode of ESCAPE the Mondayn. I'm your host, Stacy Dawn, and I'll be cooking up the big family dinner tonight...mmm-mmm-good. And speaking of mmm-mmm-good, please welcome our guest celebrity spinner for today...Ryan Reynolds. Yes, yes, I know he's becoming a regular but in truth, he popped by to help me chop the wood this weekend (okay, I sat and drooled as he did it) so I thought since he is also Canadian, it only fitting he pop by for one more episode.

Welcome Ryan.

Thank you and I'm looking forward to dinner tonight.

I'm looking forward to dessert. **licks her lips**

Well, before we can get to either, we must get this gameshow on the road. Would you swing those arms up and give our prize wheel a spin?

Of course. Tickety-tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety...tickety...tick. **broad smile grows** It landed on a Book Thong.

Really? Hmmmm. To many things come to mind to comment on a PG show so why don't you hit our Object Wheel.

Tickety-tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety...tickety...tick. **laughing** It landed on a Thong.

**casts nasty look to chuckling stage manager** No set up here, huh?

All right then, we gotta go with flow so remember everyone you must add a Thong into your entries today. Something tells me the PG rating just flew out the window.

Ready? Here's your escape:

At the grocery store, you're contemplating the size of turkey you need for one when all of a sudden you're jostled so hard you almost end up beside the rock-frozen birds in the freezer....Go.

Let yourself go and tell me what happens next! Don't forget to incorporate that thong in there somewhere LOL.

Give me two lines or give me twenty, it doesn't matter. Just let your mind wander and...

Pioneer Days

2006-10-07T06:50:00.000-04:00

Well, I'll playing pioneer woman today, stacking up the firewood to heat us through the winter. Hmmm, funny how she has a wheelbarrow and I don't though.

With any luck the day will stay sunny and the wood will dwindle quickly.

I'm also hoping it will give me lots of time to think and work out a proper idea with an actual plot to start working on next week.
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I'm having Coffee today....

2006-10-06T13:41:00.000-04:00

I'm over at Coffee Time Romance today with my fellow The Wild Rose Press authors.

It's an all day loop chat and I'll be posting between 4-6pm EST if anyone wants to pop by and say HI. I'd love to see you!

Frustrated

2006-10-05T08:19:00.000-04:00

Okay, I happily admit my mind works in different ways, which is more than likely why I am a writer. Unfortunately, because of this it also doesn't work the way I want it to.

Case in point. I have ideas I want to write...I have funny ideas, serious ideas, and a way far out idea but none of them are panning out into actual stories. This is the general conversation my brain and I have:

Brain: What about this idea, it has a funny opening.

Me: You're right, it could work.

(crickets chirping)

Me: Uh, can you help me out here a bit and give me a little more

Brain: Nope, that's all I got. Oh wait, what about this title! It'd make a great Christmas story.

Me: I LOVE it! She could be....what?

Brain: Sorry, nope, can't help you there but say I just thought of another one.

Me: Interesting and totally off the wall...wait, before I get excited is there more?

Brain: Yep.

Me: Whew, okay go ahead.

Brain: Somewhere in the story they fall in love.

Me: Right, I do write romance, that's a good thing but what about the story? How do they fall in love?

Brain: Hmmm, you got me there too. Is it bedtime yet?

Its still sleeping.

Montages

2006-10-04T09:15:00.000-04:00

Wouldn't it be nice if you could montage the middle of your book like films do? Show just the important stuff and breeze over the transitions with pretty music and a few sweeps of film to get to the good stuff.

I think half my problem is because that's what I do in my head. You know how some scenes come out so clear while others are fuzzy so I breeze over them and consentrate on the rich scenes I already have. There might be an important bit in the mix and that will be clear but the transitional scenes aren't.

Then again, if you are going to go so far as to wish for a montaged middle then we might as well go right for the ability to put the story that is in our brain directly into book format without having to physically fight and type the thing out attempting for all we're worth to make right over and over and over again in revisions.

Episode #20: And the winner is...

2006-10-04T09:09:00.000-04:00

Let's shake up those McDreamy names and see who comes out as the winner of this week's episode!

And the winner is....Mary Beth!

Congratulations! Send me an email with your address and I'll get them in the mail to you.

Join us next week for another arousing episode of....

ESCAPE the Mondayn: Episode #20

2006-10-02T00:31:00.000-04:00

Welcome to another episode of ESCAPE the Mondayn, a weekly gameshow found only on the Sensibly Insane Channel. I'm your host Stacy Dawn and this is our 20th episode! Can you believe it! Not only that but it's another TWO Day event because I'll be blogging at Word Flirts Tomorrow! Whew! **fans self with cue-cards** I'm so excited I might faint...is there a doctor in the house??

No, but I play one on T.V.--does that count?

Works for me. **Wide grin** Everyone please welcome our guest celebrity spinner for today...Patrick Dempsey!

**kisses her cheek** you do feel a little warm.

Look at you...and tell me I don't have reason.

**sexy boyish grin**

Well, maybe we should have a private consultation in my dressing room after the show. Why don't you go over and spin the prize wheel and tell us what one randomly drawn contestant could win today.

My pleasure. Tickety-tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety...tickety...tick. It's an appointment calendar.

Perfect. A purse-size 2007/2008 calendar to keep track of all those important **winks** appointments. Now, trot on over to the Object Wheel and let's see what our contestants have to work with today.

Tickety-tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety...tickety...tick. It landed on a lab coat.

Okay so you must incorporate a lab coat into your entry today. Hmmm, every once in a while I wonder if my crew rigs these wheels just for their amusement.

Ready everyone? Here's your escape:

You are on the downtown sidewalk when all of a sudden the Heavens open up and the rain comes down, hard. You realize your car is another four blocks away so quickly decide to turn into the nearest doorway for cover...GO.

Let yourself escape and tell me what happens next? Where are you? Who is there with you?

Give me two lines or give me twenty, it doesn't matter. You don't have to be a writer, you don't have to be a reader, heck, you don't even have to be sane if you don't want to be just open up and let yourself...

And remember to catch me Tuesday at Word Flirts!

Woohoo!

2006-09-29T20:09:00.000-04:00

Finally! Over a year ago I saw these chairs in the store, tried it out, loved the firm back and wanted one for my office. They sold out before I could get it.

They must be a student's chair because as soon as all the school supplies came out they did too. This year they even had PINK! Yes, I wanted a pink office chair. Unfortunately, my work area is in the 'sportsroom' and my pink chair was immediately vitoed (don't worry, I have lots of bright colors in my space that he can't say boo about)

So I was in the store today and the chairs were on sale! Actually only the orange one which was my first choice last year and my second choice from the pink this year. So I get on my cell, convince him orange is much better than pink AND I have birthday money from my mom and VOILA! I have a new office chair. Even better, without me even asking, HE put it together for me...now how cool is that! So this is my chair except picture it in bright orange he he he.

These are COOL!

2006-09-28T15:54:00.000-04:00

I just got my supply of flirty girl bookmarks in. (Flirty girl is what I call my logo) They turned out really well--so well in fact that I think I'll hold another Quickie contest!

What Christmas story do I already have published? E-mail me at contests @ stacydawn.com (no spaces) with the answer and Quickie in the subject line. All correct answers received by 10pm EST Saturday (Sept 30) will get one of my new bookmarks! (Hint: answer is on my website)

Eureka! A Discovery

2006-09-27T08:38:00.000-04:00

It's funny how we do things without even realizing until one night you lie in bed listening to the coyotes howl and Eureka! so that's why I do that. What the heck am I talking about right?

Yes, it has to do with writing and no, it's not really a WOW factor discovery to anyone but me but it kinda took me by surprise because I never really knew I did it.

I'm working on this cowboy story and it's just not flowing as it should. I'm having problems with descriptives etc in between the dialoge. I realized it was due to POV which I needed to keep an eye on. Then last night in bed I made the descision to change it over totally to first person. I was battling myself with this because I didn't want it first but of course fighting yourself against the story always means that you'll lose and end up doing what is best for the story anyway. So okay, I resigned myself to the fact knowing it would make the story stronger and better and more sassy so to speak.

I do find first person easier for me to write than third yet at the same time I've done many stories in third that work out quite well so why does third person seem to give me so much trouble sometimes? Out of the blue my train of thought turned to past stories. The ones I've done in third and the others I've done in first and the same thing holds true for all of them...

If there is two pov's then I can write in third person no problem. If there is only one pov then I have major trouble...every time. Other than one or two which I started in first, all these other stories began in third person but ended up in first. Is that just weird and me or does anyone else do this too? I've read tons of stories from one pov that were written in third person and they're excellent. There doesn't seem to be any different writing technique so why do I have this problem. Or, in truth, is it a problem or just the way my voice choses to be, well, voiced?

I just found it an interesting discover and one which holds true for as far back as I've been writing yet just now comes the understanding behind it.

What a Party!

2006-09-26T07:42:00.000-04:00

I just want to send out a huge thank you to everyone who sent birthday wishes here at my blog and at my party on The Story Board. I so appreciate all of you!

It was a fantastic party on the blogesphere that's for sure!

Episode #19: And the winner is...

2006-09-26T07:39:00.000-04:00

**wiping cake from face**

What a great party! The winner is...Annie!!

Email me with you address and I'll get your gift out to you!

Don't forget to come back next Monday for another episode of

ESCAPE the Mondayn: Episode # 19: It's Party Time

2006-09-25T00:03:00.000-04:00

Welcome to a special episode of ESCAPE the Mondayn! I'm your host, Stacy Dawn, and I've got my party dress on ready for my big day at The Story Board.
I sure hope you can all pop into my birthday party for a bit! (http://groups.yahoo.com/group/The_Story_Board_/ 9am -6pm EST)

So let's get onto the fun. Since it is my party, I couldn't decide on just one hunk to invite so I added a few of mine...and your favorites.

Hmmm, decisions, decisions...who gets to spin my wheels **winks**

Okay, Matthew, you can go first. Tell these lovely ladies what birthday present they have a chance to win today.

You got it Stacy. And might I add a special Happy Birthday. **kisses Stacy's cheek and caresses lips up to whisper in her ear**

**clears throat, pink heightening her cheeks** Yes, you may definately give me that birthday present later in my dressing room.

**A wicked smile plays on his lips as he reaches big bronze arms up to spin the prize wheel** Tickety-tickety-tickety-tickety....tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety....tickety...tick. It landed on Mystery Prize.

**laughs** No, don't worry, I won't be recycling any of my birthday presents that I didn't like because, frankly, that's never happened. No, this is simply a mystery prize just like all wrapped up birthday presents are until the unveiling! So, you'll have to play, hope to win the random draw, then wait till the mailman comes to find out your surprise for today.

Hmmm, whose next. After the last blanket fiasco, maybe I'll have Ryan spin the wheel, Jon, and I'll let you do the next part.

**winks** Not a problem, Stace. I've got your present in my dressing room.

Oh goody! Looking forward to it. Go ahead, Ryan, spin the Object Wheel.

**gives other men a once over then winks at Stacy** My gift will be hand delivered tonight.

Thank you. Another something special to look forward too!

You know it. Tickety-tickety-tickety-tickety....tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety....tickety...tick. It landed on Mystery Prize. The object for today is a piece of ribbon.

A piece of ribbon...how my mind wanders. Before it gets to far, we best get to your escape. Jon, will you give it to them today?

Happy too. Ladies **winks at Lora** Here's your escape:

You just finished a hard day at work. Heading home you hit rush hour traffic but just when things start moving again and the way home looks clear...CRASH... you're rear ended...GO!

Let yourself escape and tell me what happens next.

Give me two lines or give me twenty, it doesn't matter but remember to incorporate a piece of ribbon into your comments. Don't be shy, don't be a lurker, just dive in and...

Don't forget, you are all invited to my all day Birthday Party TODAY 9am-6pm EST at

The Story Board

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/The_Story_Board_/

This, That, and Party Plans

2006-09-23T09:31:00.000-04:00

I've been working on a new short story. The first rough draft is done but I'm having problems with their initial meeting scene. You know, getting past the "Hello my name is" bores. My friend sent me a minature crystal ball for my birthday for focus...it couldn't have come at a better time. I don't know a lot about New Age stuff but it's cool and the readings she sent on it are pretty neat too.

My house is still backlogged although the laundry is now up to date. I think it's time for Fall Cleaning. Digging, dusting, scrubbing, and pretty much just like spring cleaning except this time it's to get ready for the upcoming holidays and decorations to go with them (if you think this is early, remember that our Canadian Thanksgiving is on October 9th). I think I'll take a room a day next week and see if I can't get it all put back together by next weekend. Ugh, wish me luck!

I've been putting together loot bags for my Birthday Party at The Story Board (http://groups.yahoo.com/group/The_Story_Board_/) and for fun, I think I'll put some balloons on my desk. It's running all day Monday so I really hope you can pop in for a visit!

It's OUT!

2006-09-22T11:48:00.000-04:00

Sold!

Playing around with ways to let a co-worker know she wants to share more than just ‘the look’ over the staffroom coffeemaker, a nervous newspaper employee inadvertently sends him a made-up classified ad. Will her colossal mistake put her in next week’s gossip column or land her the best deal of her life?

Available now from The Wild Rose Press

This is a funny story about getting up the nerve to make the first move. And don't forget to enter my What's Your First Move? contest to tell me your first move stories!

You are all invited to my Birthday Party!!

2006-09-21T09:06:00.000-04:00

On Monday, September 25th, I'm having an author day at The Story Board from 9am -6pm.

Not only that, it's my Birthday that day so I'm celebrating by having a party and you are all invited!

As a fun twist...I'll be the one giving away the presents! I'll be doing random draws from those who come to the party and comment or ask questions and giving away gifts all day long!

I'll also be giving excerpts of my current releases, new releases, and those coming soon.

So, get your party stories ready because I'll want to hear all about the best, worst, funniest, or craziest birthdays you've ever had.

Hope to see you all there!

What's Your First Move?

2006-09-20T08:30:00.000-04:00

I just found out my short story, Sold!, will be released on Friday!

It's a humorous story about making the first move in a relationship so to celebrate, I'd like to hear your ‘first move’ stories.

Did you ever make the first move? What did you do? What was the funniest line or first move someone ever made on you?

Leave a comment here or e-mail me at contests @ stacydawn.com (no spaces) by October 10th. One randomly drawn person will receive a download of my story, Sold! as well as an Electronic Fortune Teller to help you make your next move!

Check back here on October 11th when I’ll post some of the stories and announce the winner!

Note: By entering, you consent to the display of your entry on my blog should your story be chosen for posting on October 11, 2006. Credit and/or links will be posted with each comment unless requested not to do so.

And look for Sold! available this Friday from The Wild Rose Press!

Episode #18: And the winner is....

2006-09-20T08:00:00.000-04:00

I've put the names into the kiddie pool and whichever one comes out stuck to the back of the youngest producer is out winner.

**splash**

And the winner this week is Lee!!

Email me your snail mail and I'll get your calendar out to you!

Thank you to the other contestants and we'll see you next week for another episode of...

ESCAPE the Mondayn: Episode #18

2006-09-18T00:03:00.000-04:00

Welcome to another episode of ESCAPE the Mondayn here on the Sensibly Insane Channel. I'm your host, Stacy Dawn, and I'm so happy you could join us.

I’ll quickly let you know that this is another TWO DAY episode so lots of time to play. And please join me tomorrow, Tuesday, at Word Flirts for my regularly scheduled sensibly insane musings!

Decisions, decisions, decisions. I had three acceptances from hunky celebrities this week and I just couldn’t decide whom to invite for today’s episode. So, I wrote back and asked them all to send me an audition photo—shirtless. The moment I opened this envelope, the decision was made.

Please welcome our guest celebrity spinner for today, hunky Ryan Reynolds!

Welcome, Ryan.

**flashes smile** Thanks for choosing me today.

Oh, honey, after that picture, there was no choice about it. Did I ever mention I love a man in water?

**knowing wink**

Why you sly dog! **peruses him up and down** Or should I say clever, clever, man.

**clears throat** Yes, well, we’ll talk about that later, preferably in the studio's hot tub. For now, I’ll get you to spin the prize wheel and see what one lucky contestant could win today.

You got it. Tickety-tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety...tickety...tick. It’s a Beaches Clip Calendar.

Mmmm, more pictures of luscious watery beaches on a handy clip to your purse or knapsack calendar. Why don’t you head on over to the Object Wheel and see what our contestants have to encorporate into their entries this week.

**studio lights glint off arms kissed golden by the sun** Tickety-tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety...tickety...tick.

And what is the object for today?

It landed on a pair of water wings.

**sultry laugh** I like a themed episode.

Okay ladies, here’s your escape:

You’re car broke down on the longest, most deserted desert road. The sun is blazing down and there’s not a cloud in sight. Shading your eyes, you see the dry dirt billowing out in the distance coming closer and closer. An old red Ford truck pulls up and the door opens....GO!

Let yourself escape and tell me what happens next. Don’t forget to get those water wings in there somewhere!

Give me two lines or give me twenty it doesn’t matter. Open your mind and let yourself...

Remember to visit me Tuesday at Word Flirts!

OMG that Pile is HUGE!!

2006-09-16T10:24:00.000-04:00

I don't think I've ever seen such a humongous pile of laundry...yikes. I guess I should have looked up once or twice from the monitor LOL. I just figured if the kids were clean fed and happy then everything else could wait.....hmmm, I might have to rethink that theory next time LOL.

Congratulations to Jeanne (catslady) who won yesterday's Find it Friday contest!!

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IT IS DONE!!!!

2006-09-15T19:35:00.000-04:00

That had to be the weirdest writing process I've ever been through. And talk about cutting it close. I sent the entry in at 6:45 tonight and the good thing is that I was happy with it...I didn't just send in something to get it in but worked my tail off to make sure it was up to par.

Trust me, my house has suffered for my art these past two week while the story took twists and turns which had me pulling out hair and playing cut and paste on the floor. It will take me another week to clean it out LOL.

So, hopefully my entry gets a read but as for now there is nothing more I can do so I'm taking the night to RELAX!

Find it Friday

2006-09-15T07:04:00.000-04:00

Okay, I know I'm going off on the titles but they're becoming fun!

I think I had a topic to blog about today but I totally forgot it. Today is D-day as in deadline-have-to-get--it-in-or-the-editor-will-never-trust-me-again day. The good part is that I have a solid 15K story...the bad part is that I still have to tidy it up and add one or two little details like types of flowers, plants, how to plant them etc because the theme we needed to use is a garden story and um, I don't know a lot about gardening....in comes mother. I can see her garden from my window and an hour with her should make the story plausible and maybe even give it a little oomph. If you're asking why I waited until the last minute to have this little chat?....she's been on holidays in P.E.I for three weeks LOL.

So for Find it Friday today and to keep with the theme, I have a lovely "In the Garden" 2007 desk calendar up for grabs. Find the item "Prince Charming" was carrying in the very first story I ever published. Hint: it's on my website. E-mail your answer with Find it Friday in the subject line to contests@stacydawn.com. I'll even send all entries a bookmark and pick a random name tomorrow morning for the calendar.

Have a great day!

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Bra-less Wednesday Part II: Thespian Thursday

2006-09-14T08:11:00.000-04:00

Yesterdays post brought out a number of interesting views both in thought and visual LOL.

The most interesting was an e-mail I received. First, I will say it is from a good friend so not to be taken in any offense. Second, he's a guy so right there, you have to give him a bit of a break LOL.

He begins the letter by describing his observations about 'dressing the part' in his workplace and how sometimes you can't tell a person by their cover so to speak. Here is a quote of the latter half of his note:

You said you write in sweats and t-shirt. Yet when I look at your
blog site, I see pictures of gowns and dresses. A brief look at **'s
books, shows well dressed heroines. Almost every one has
a picture/sketch/artwork of a female, in a dress and high heels on the cover.
The question comes down to "can you write romances while dressed in
non-romantic clothes?" And trust me, sweats and baggy t-shirts aren't
romantic. Would you write better if you dressed the part? Maybe you
should try wearing a formal gown and heels while writing. Maybe you should
try this when your kids and Ken are away so they don't call a doctor or lock you
up however. :)

Please don't take any of the above too seriously. But I bet you get
quite a few responses on this one.

Now, obviously a few of his points leave much to be desired, the one that comes to mind most for me is that T-shirts and sweats are not romantic...I'll leave that one for his wife to deal with LOL.

But he does bring up an interesting point. Romantic Heroines are portrayed most often 'dressed for the part' Try to think of any covers you've ever seen with the woman NOT in heels? Please tell me if you know them because I don't.

What does this say about my writing then when my current piece involves a landscaper heroine who is more comfortable in dirt? Am I more comfortable writing about lesser, shall we say, vain heroines because I myself wouldn't know the name of a shoe designer if I read it on a billboard?

So taking the 'dressing for success' theory of yesterday, would literally 'dressing for the part' make a difference in the writing? If I dressed for a night on the town before I wrote, would a nightclub scene be more indepth and real? Would wearing a tiara get me in the mood to write a fairytale story? Does writing naked make your erotic scenes come easier(no pun intended, though it is kinda funny LOL) ? Dressed all in black for a thief, in medieval gown for a historical, combat boots for a military heroine...you get my point. In other words, will staging yourself at your desk for a day make a difference?

This is all in fun, mind you but I thought the concept very interesting and have to give my friend credit for his intuitiveness. Maybe someday I'll give his theory a whirl...you never know, it might help.

So, of course I have to ask...have you or would you dress up for your characters??

Bra-less Wednesday

2006-09-13T10:06:00.000-04:00

That got your attention didn't it!

Actually, it's more...bra-less or not?

You see, we ran into town the other day to get groceries and with my deadline looming dangerously close, as soon as we got back I went right to work. I got quite a bit done too. Later in the afternoon it occurred to me that I was in more formal garb than my usual work attire of track pants and t-shirt. The biggest difference was the bra. More than you need to know but most of the time if I know I'm at home all day, I let the girls have a little freedom.

So all this got me wondering if I worked better 'dressed for success' or not. I used to work a 9-5 job, nylons and all **cringe**, very professional looking. Since being at home, of course I don't bother with most of that except for specific events. Does it make a difference in my mental attitude if I 'feel' more professional when I write? Should I be putting on the bra and maybe a nice pair of jeans and a casual-dressy shirt to 'go to work' at my desk. Will this influence my writing?

I know this is getting personal but I'd really like to know or have a little poll on this. Bra or Bra-less? Does how you dress for writing make a difference to how you write??
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Remember, the Quickie contest ends tonight. All the details are at the bottom of yesterdays post!
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Wedding Days and School Daze

2006-09-12T11:17:00.000-04:00

Today, my husband and I are celebrating our 8th wedding anniversary. That would mean we've been together ten years now. Wow, where does the time go? It honestly seems like just yesterday he was trying to hit on my co-worker and totally ignoring me--oh, that's a true story LOL. Same as when we were finally dating, everyone thought he was dating my other co-worker. Ah yes, the good old days. He's a wonderful man giving me unfailing love and support and here I am making him iron his own shirts...it must be love!

So, if this is such a special day then why do I feel that I just gave my son away to a stranger??

Yes, I'm still a paranoid mother who just sent her son to kindergarten on a bus. He's the first one picked up so that could lend to my ridiculous mind games. You need to remember though was raised a city girl who walked to school so the daily school bus is still new to me especially when the poor little guy lookes like he's climbing Mount Everest as he gets into the yellow beast that swallows children.

I'll come back down to earth when he's returned safely and by June, won't even have these thoughts more than once or twice a day instead of once or twice an hour.

It's the first day back to school, what can I say?

So, to celebrate my anniversary and distract from my paranoia I'm gonna have another Quickie contest. My children are my treasures. Visit my website and tell me who published my story 'Hidden Treasures'. Simply as that.

Email me at contests@stacydawn.com with the subject line Quickie and your answer. I'll send all the right answers a magnet, bookmark, and whatever else I can fit into the envelope. Hurry up because this quickie ends midnight Wednesday!

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Episode #17: And the winner is...

2006-09-12T11:12:00.000-04:00

All the names are going into the Blue Jays baseball cap, our youngest producer is picking out a name and the winner of the Lolly Pop Lip Gloss is....Babe!

Congratulations. Send me an email and I'll get the prize out to you!

Thanks to all of our contestants and don't forget to join us next Monday for another episode of....

ESCAPE the Mondayn: Episode # 17

2006-09-11T00:05:00.000-04:00

Welcome to another episode of ESCAPE the Mondayn. I think I'm your host, Stacy Dawn, but I can't be sure. I was up partying all night at The Wild Rose Press Grand Opening yesterday and am a little out of it today. It was wild, believe me.

So, before I fall into his arms with weariness, please welcome our guest celebrity spinner today...Matthew McConaughey! Yes, I had to sneak him out of a certain someone's house last night because SHE thought she could hog him. Welcome, Matthew.

Thank you, Stacy. You know you're the only woman for me though, right.

*pats his cheek* Of course I do. Now, why don't you spin those two wheels so we can get out of here and take a nap. *wink*

You got it. Here goes the prize wheel. Tickety-tickety-tickety-tickety....tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety...tickety...tick. It landed on a Lollypop Lipgloss.

Ooh, this is a fun prize. Six different color lip glosses in a heart lolly pop case. And what is our word for today, Matthew.

*walks over to Object Wheel* Tickety-tickety-tickety-tickety....tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety...tickety...tick. It's a cow.

*snickers* See, I told you last week that I wasn't going to make it easy anymore. Now for the escape:

You just settled into your airplane seat with dreams of sandy beaches, moonlit, nights and margaritas on your mind. Just before they close the door a familiar voice yells, "Hold up, I'm on this flight." You look up and...FREEZE.

Let yourself escape and tell me what happens next. Give me two lines or give me twenty, it doesn't matter but remember, you must use the word 'cow' somewhere in your comment.

So open your imagination and turn off your doubts. You don't have to be a writer, you don't have to be a reader. Heck, you don't even have to be sane if you don't want to be. Just start your fingers typing and....

IT'S GRAND OPENING DAY!!!

2006-09-10T00:03:00.000-04:00

We are blowing our horns and whistles celebrating the official

Grand Opening of The Wild Rose Press!

TODAY!

Come join us at 8pm EST Tonight in their chat room for the party. Meet with authors, editors...oh, and me too LOL. It should be lots of fun and don't forget the giveaways and door prizes!!

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Congratulations to all the winners from the Quickie contest! Thanks for playing!
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Sweeter Romantic Notions and Kelley the Published Author

2006-09-08T12:04:00.000-04:00

There is an awesome new group out there called Sweeter Romantic Notions. It's a specialized group for those who read, write, review or like the softer, less erotic side of romance. Don't worry, we're not putting you erotic authors down, on the contrary, many of the members write both. This group however focuses on the less hot and heavy side LOL. It's a great bunch of ladies so please pop over and check it out.

Stop on by and introduce yourself--tell them Stacy sent you!

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/SweeterRomanticNotions

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Our own Kelley Vitollo has her first ebook released TODAY

Dream Man

Sadie has the same dream night after night. She dreams of a mystery man with black hair, gorgeous blue eyes, and magical hands. When dream becomes reality and Sadie comes face to face with her dream man, will she have the courage to see if reality is better then the dream?

Available TODAY from Forbidden Publications!

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Contests:

If you haven't seen it already, I have a brand new contest up but it ends on September 15th so be sure to get your entries in. Here it is, just scroll down an inch.

Also, you know me, I like a little fun so I'm running a contest Quickie! Go to my website and find out the very first story I ever published. Email me at contests@stacydawn.com with the subject line Quickie and tell me the title -- I'll send all the correct answers a magnet and bookmark! Hurry--it ends at midnight Saturday!

Around The Blog Town

2006-09-07T13:21:00.000-04:00

Lots of stuff going on around blogtown today!

I have an interview up with Abby at Magenta Ink.

My fellow Wild Rose Press author Lee Morrisson has an all day chat at aoraag · Authors of Romance and All Genres for her soon-to-be release Life Begins in Arizona.

The contemorary Cobblestone Press authors including Karen Erickson , Shellie Stevens and Ann Cory are chatting at The CobblestoneDiscussion Group.

Kelley is holding a weeks worth of contest to promote her fabulous new release Dream Man which comes out on Friday!

Cut and Paste

2006-09-06T08:35:00.000-04:00

In a carry over from my post at Word Flirts, I spent last night sitting on the floor with my current story spread around me and cut and pasted the thing together--literally. We're talking scissors, glue, stapler and highlighter. Ugh.

Not pretty but I think I got a workable pile that I will now start a new document for and do the same cut and paste on the computer today. Hopefully by tomorrow, I'll have a legible copy to send to my crit partners.

Speaking of crit partners, I did something else unusual for this piece too. As I read it over I tried to pretend it was something one of them sent me to critique, not mine. I even made suggestions or kudos like I would as if it were theirs. It's amazing how in another mind set it was easier to pick out what was working and what wasn't.

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And as promised, here is my next contest... **drum rolls and horns**....

Shadows of Moonlight Contest

Visit my website or The Wild Rose Press Bookstore and read the blurb for Shadows of Moonlight. All you have to do is tell me how many times his wife's spirit has returned. It's not a trick question but don't be fooled by the number you see. Email the answer to me at contests@stacydawn.com.

It’s as simple as that. I’ll pick a name from all the correct answers and the winner will receive a beautiful oversized floral journal (10 ½ x 8) and a writing pen.

If you would like to purchase my story (thank you so so much if you do) and you include the actual names of each woman in your email then you will be entered into a second special draw for a Strawberry Daiquiri Pedicure set including lotion, emery board, nail brush, and slippers.

I’ll announce the winners in my next Newsletter, which will come out around the 16th of September (so get those answers in soon!). If you’re not already signed up for my newsletter, don’t worry. You can find the sign up here on my blog to the left there. (it only comes out once a month so don’t worry about cluttered email)

Good luck everyone!

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Don't forget to look below to see who won yesterdays ESCAPE the Mondayn episode. We're still cleaning up the drool LOL.

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Episode #16: And the winner is...

2006-09-06T08:30:00.000-04:00

Well, I must say. That had to be the most interesting episode for Contestant non-participation--**sigh** They were all too drooley and googley eyed over poor Jon. The janitorial team is still wiping Lora's up off the floor.

Okay, and now for the winner. All the names went into the hat and the winner this week is....Jenna! Congratulations. Send me an email at contests at stacydawn.com with your address and I'll get the Belly Button Jewelry out to you!

And don't forget to join us again next week for another half naked celebrity guest on...

ESCAPE the Mondayn: Episode #16

2006-09-04T00:03:00.000-04:00

Welcome to the blogesphere's #1 gameshow, ESCAPE the Mondayn! I'm your host, Stacy Dawn, and I'm so happy you could join us. Oh, before I begin I’ll let you know that this is another TWO Day episode so lots of time to play. You can join me Tuesday at Word Flirts for my sensibly insane musings AND the announcement of my next contest...something you won’t want to miss!

We've got a couple changes coming your way so let's get started!

On the special request of a great interviewer **wink**, please welcome back a favorite guest celebrity spinner...Jon Bon Jovi!

**tsks with a shake of her head** Jon...Jon...Jon...I told you to put some pants on before you came out. What will Bebe and our contestants think?

**contestant row shouts exactly what they think with emphatic whistles and cat calls**

**Sly smile**

Well, seems we have a mutual consent to stay as you are. Hmmm, better keep a good hold of that blanket while you spin our wheel **winks**

You got it. Tickety-tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety...tickety...tick.

And what will one lucky, randomly drawn contestant win today?

It’s Belly Button Jewelry. Niiiice.

**laughs** Don't worry contestants, you don't have to be pierced to use this bejewelled little piece of body art.

Now, for the big change to our game. We have a new second wheel--our Object Wheel. Whatever it lands on has to be incorporated into your escape answers. So, Jon, head on over to the next wheel and give us a spin.

**wicked grin to audience** Oops. Sorry, didn’t mean to stand on the blanket.

**laughing as he bends to pick quilt up off the floor** I’ll bet. **reaches luscious biceps up to spin larger wheel** Tickety-tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety...tickety...tick. The object for today is a toothbrush.

Excellent. Everyone ready? Here is your escape and I'll even make it easy for our first edition (don't expect it to be so next week **evil laugh**):

A gorgeous scene shines back from the postcard your heroine is holding...GO.

Let yourself escape and tell me what she’s thinking, doing, or anything else you want to make up. Simple as that but don't forget to include today's object, a toothbrush, somewhere in the scene!

Give me two lines or give me twenty it doesn’t matter. Open your mind and let yourself...

Remember check out Word Flirts on Tuesday for my brand new contest!

We're Having a Party!!!!

2006-09-02T07:15:00.000-04:00

We are blowing our horns and whistles celebrating the official Grand Opening of The Wild Rose Press!

Come join us on September 10th at 8pm EST in their chat room for the party. Meet with authors, editors...oh, and me too LOL. It should be lots of fun and don't forget the giveaways and door prizes!!

Hmmm, I think it's time I thought up a new contest soon too. What do you think? Stay tuned.

I hope you all have a great Labour Day weekend! Hubby is working so it will be quiet here. I've given myself a small challenge to see how many pages I can get done over the three days.

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Sold!

2006-08-31T18:08:00.000-04:00

I got my next cover today. This is another humorous short story that I loved writing. It's dedicated to my friend because she's been through things like this a few times LOL.

They are really trying to individualize the short stories now. I absolutely LOVE the little computer in the corner.

Sold!

Playing around with ways to let a co-worker know she wants to share more than just ‘the look’ over the staffroom coffeemaker, a nervous newspaper employee inadvertently sends him a made-up classified ad. Will her colossal mistake put her in next week’s gossip column or land her the best deal of her life?

Coming soon from The Wild Rose Press.

Also catch my interview Friday with Bebe Thomas at Conversations with Almost Famous Writers.

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What's Your Theory of Love? Entry Posts

2006-08-30T00:03:00.000-04:00

Remember, I’ll be making a random draw for the Book Bag Full of Goodies at the end of the post from all the entries recieved . Thank goodness I had the forethought to make it a random draw though...there are just too many good ones to choose from, it was hard enough deciding which ones to post today!

And now, without further ado, I present to you some of Your Theories of Love...

I believe the strongest love comes from good friendships. I know it's corny to say, but my husband is my best friend. Even when our sex life is a bit "ho hum" with have this great friendship that keeps us close. Having a friendship to fall back on when things are bad has helped us stay strong when we've been through things like infertility and miscarriage that I've seen tear my friends marriages appart.
by Bec

Hmm... the theory of love. The one theory I've learned is that you've got to go through stuff to get to where you're meant to be. I've thought on this loads ever since I met my soul-mate who last year became my husband. He's 12 yrs younger than me but I know from the bottom of my heart that he's the 'one'. I don't regret past experiences because if I hadn't been through them (other relationships) I wouldn't have got to the place I was supposed to be today. I guess what I'm trying to say is, my theory of love is fate!
by MsCreativity

I believe in infatuation at first sight. Is infatuation part of love? Is it the first stepping stone? I believe there are various levels of love - and the love that you have for one another on your wedding day is nothing like the one you share on your tenth wedding anniversary. My love for my husband has deepened and matured over the years (we just celebrated our 7th anniversary). We have had our share of hard times, but it has only strengthened our commitment to each other. So in a nutshell, here is my theory: Love has several stepping stones and with both partner's commitment, it can mature into a strong, stable, trustworthy, and comfortable love. Now that is not to say that it is BORING - far from it! Putting "romance" which, I believe, is different from "love", into the equation is an absolute must!
by Melissa Marsh

Pheremones baby! *haha* Well, I think love is rollercoaster. You get your highs and lows, but overall it's an awesome ride!
by Jodie

I believe souls resonate to souls they have known throughout time. It's similar to the idea of having a soul-mate, but on a broader scale. Love at first sight? It happened to me. Ahmed and I had seen photographs of one another, but until he knocked over a book display at the Barnes and Noble cafe and superstore, and I looked up into the most incredible, hammered gold eyes I had ever seen-- the connection didn't happen.When it did, something clicked, plunked, tumbled into place, and there was no going back.But I don't believe that only happens when you meet the love of your life. I've had it happen on a smaller scale with the friends I have made-- and kept-- over a lifetime. Sometimes when we meet someone there is an instant attraction that has nothing to do with sexuality. It's a recognition. Your soul, your heart, even the part of your mind that makes your thought process unique, feels a resonant echo. You know.When we embrace that, our lives are more fulfilled and happier. I know people who are content. I know people who surround themselves with others (often family, but not always) who make them unhappy. But I've always listened to the universe when it places special people in my path. I hold on to friends with whom I have a natural, easy rapport. I've had some very difficult times in my adult life, everything from cancer to incurable lung disease, but I am a very happy woman.Recognizing love when it shines on me, and honoring that gift when it comes, is why.
by ShandaLear

My theory of love is that genuine love is total acceptance.Both in friendships and love relationships, acceptance is the most important thing to me. It doesn't matter how much things change, the love goes on.

by Jen

Saying I Love You Without Saying “I Love You”

Put your feet against my legs, I’ll warm them up for you.
You’ve had a hard day, let me fix dinner for you.
I can watch the race some other time, let’s go on a picnic.
It’s raining pretty hard. You wait here and I’ll go bring the car up.
Let me help you with the house cleaning, we can get it done quicker and have more time to spend together.
Why don’t you pick out a nice movie , I’ll make some popcorn and we can snuggle up on the couch.
I’m sorry you don’t feel good. You stay in bed. I’ll take care of you.
Is the storm scaring you? Let me hold you in my arms, you’ll be fine.
You look tense, let me give you a massage.

by Michael R. Bulger

Hmm...theory of love. I think love can be many things. It can be love at first sight; it can be best friends taking their relationship further; or it can be like my love...we met when very young, in high school, and now that we're both over 40 and still together, I think it works because we matured in the same way. We both want the same things out of life, respect one another's interests and take the time to enjoy each other's company even when life is going nuts around us. It's the caring he shows when he rotates my tires; it's the way I make him a delish dinner when he's had a stressful day...it's remembering why we're together in the first place and that the journey that we're taking is important.
by Lisa

I can honestly say, that my theory of love, as proven by the fact that I'm still married, is that it was lust at first site and we made a mutual decision to build on that, couple that with his love of my job as a beer store girl in university, we formed the kind love of relationship we both knew we wanted. It surprises me still that it mirrors the love relationship my parents had.After all this time together, we still do fun and crazy things to keep our romantic life in tune with our love life. To us, being romantic and being in love are not the same thing...We have blind dates (with each other) and I recently found out that I have a cabana boy named Juan Sexymaaan (one sexyman said with a spanish accent). Juan surprised me one day with a glass of red wine while I was having a bath, introduced himself while I took my first sip, and it ended up coming out my nose...then the former porn star known as Hugh Longshaft showed up to towel me off. My husband has a great sense of humour and isn't afraid to play...when I think what would have happened if I hadn't let myself be stolen from another boy, well...it brings tears to my eyes. We love each other passionately, for who we both are as individuals, for who we are when we're together, and for who we are romantically. It's comfortable and wonderful and warm. Ummm...I can't wait for him to get home from work! LOL
by Jacqui D.

Didn't I tell you they were awesome! And that's really only about a third of the entries but with all the problems with Blogger lately, I didn't want to risk overloading it or I would have put them all up.

So now, let's get to the good part. The winner of the random draw for the Book Bag is...Nicole Reising. Congratulations!! Send me an email with your address and I'll send you your prize.

Thank you very much to everyone who entered!

It's NOT Crap.

2006-08-29T07:53:00.000-04:00

I might get a slam or two in the comments for this but there has been a few things on other people's blogs and a number of articles etc that I just have to take a moment to disagree with. In the beginning I agreed then yesterday, you know what, I thought, no, this is all wrong.

1st Drafts

Articles and a number of authors and industry people tell you, "Don't worry, your first draft is gonna be crap so just get it down on paper then you can move on to revising it to make it better etc etc etc". To me, this is all wrong.

Now, I'm not saying you can spit it out and send it in as is, heck no. But seriously, how do you feel knowing something you write is crap? Does this make you feel good? Confident? Ready to get back to your wip above anything else? Motivate you to keep writing? NO it doesn't. It sure makes me feel inferior, depressed, and unmotivated thinking if I write crap, why bother, no one is going to read it.

The problem is, we all feel like this anyway as we write because of our own insecurties and fears so we really don't need anyone else pushing those buttons. We take care of it ourselves very well thank you.

I had a hard time getting back into my wip yesterday because once I got past my usual it-doesn't-have-to-be-perfect-the-first-time syndrome then I was thinking “well, the first draft is crap anyway so just write” Oh yeah, there’s two great motivational mantras for me...you aren’t perfect and you write crap.... you aren’t perfect and you write crap.... you aren’t perfect and you write crap. Is it any wonder I barely got 1000 words done yesterday.

Do you see what I’m talking about yet? Yes, I know I’m not perfect and I know I don’t write like the NY Times best sellers but right now I am my only cheering squad and if I tell myself I suck then what else do I have to believe.

My point is. Your first draft may not be readable, sellable or even understandable. But I bet if you read it over with a different eye/a different mind set, you WILL be able to pick out some good things, things you can build on or use. Maybe it is only one sentence that you laugh at or one small scene that really hit the mark on what you wanted the emotion to be. Maybe it is only a line every five pages or one scene out of every ten but something when you read it that gives you that tingly, excited jolt and makes you say, “Hey, that’s good, I really like that.”

Take that puppy and run with it!! Feed off the power of that one line or one scene in your mind while you write telling yourself that yes, I can do this and I know when I go through it again I’ll have major revisions but that will only make it better! Those revisions are what will bring my story together.

So please, in defense of the poor first draft, don’t think of it as crap, think of it as a base. A base of ideas, one liners, a few awesome descriptions, and a good scene or two that will hold YOU up to continue writing. A foundation to build upon, to grow slowly but surely into the story you want to tell, in the way you want to tell it. I hear a lot how the first draft is never the same as the final version but I bet there is something there that stayed from the beginning, a few bricks....a line...a scene...a piece of dialogue that they built upon to get that ms done and out to a publisher.

Episode #15: And the winner is....

2006-08-29T07:50:00.000-04:00

By mutual agreement of the producers, and due to only one contestant this week, the winner is...Karen Erickson!

Congratulations. I'll get your stuff out into the mail for you.

Be sure to pop by next week for a little revamping of...

ESCAPE the Mondayn: Episode #15

2006-08-28T00:03:00.000-04:00

Welcome to another episode of ESCAPE the Mondayn. I'm your host, Stacy Dawn, and this won’t be my only celebrity stop this week. I’m honored to be Featured Author of the Week on Candice Gilmer’s Blog, I will be presenting What’s Your Theory of Love contestants right here on the Sensibly Insane Channel on Wednesday, and I'll be the guest interviewee on Conversations with Almost Famous Writers on Friday.

Whew! Busy, busy. But I promise it won’t last long. I have to get my head buried back into my wip asap.

So, why don’t we get this party started. Please welcome our guest celebrity spinner from the former hit show Alias...Michael Vartan!

Hello, Michael.

Hi, Stacy. Thanks for having me.

You are very welcome. Now, **sweeps hand up and down his chest** if you don’t mind.

**confused look** What?

The shirt...it has to come off.

**bashful smile** Really? I was hoping maybe...

Oh no. This is one of those firm—hopefully, very firm—rules, hon. Let’s see that bod.

Okay. **sexy self-consious laugh as slowly takes jacket off then undoes buttons one...at...a...time**

Come now, Michael. If I didn’t know better, I’d think you were teasing us.

Who me? **winks**

Mmm, mmm, mmm, just the way I like our guests. So, why don’t you do a little agent flex for the ladies and spin our wheel.

You got it. Tickety-tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety...tickety...tick.

And what will one randomly drawn contestant win today?

It’s a Mini Pocket Butterfly Manicure Tool.

Oooh, compact and handy to throw in the purse for those nail emergencies.

Speaking of emergencies, here’s your escape:

Alarms suddenly start going off all over the place in the building where you work. Suddenly the sprinkler system kicks in drenching everything in sight including you and the sexy co-worker in the next cubical...FREEZE.

Let yourself escape and tell me what happens next! Give me two lines or give me twenty, it doesn't matter because it's all for fun.

You don't have to be a writer. You don't have to be a reader. Heck, you don't even have to be sane if you don't want to be. Just open up and let yourself...

And be sure to keep your eyes open next week for a new revamping of your favorite Blogland game show!

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Couple of Things

2006-08-26T20:16:00.000-04:00

I got tagged by Candice for this:

When did I start writing...

In all honesty, I must have been about nine. Most of them I made up in my head but some I wrote down. My first submission was to the kids magazine, Highlights. It was rejected so I started that early too LOL.

Highschool was when I started really putting things down on paper. We had an old antique typewriter that I used. It was kinda cool but of course editing was a pain LOL. I made the mistake of throwing most of that work out (I know, I still cringe myself) I should have kept it and now am fervent in my efforts to save work whether I ever plan to use it again or not.

I had my first short story accepted a few months after I started dating my then future husband. It came out in STAR magazine (which doesn't do short stories anymore) and was available at the check-outs in his store. Well, everyone thought I had written the story about him LOL. In truth, I had written it way before him but he got teased so much it was hilarious.

And the rest, as they say is history.

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You have to check out this piece on Discipline in writing that Stephanie mentioned on her blog. I thought it was quite true for me at least and nice to know that I'm not the only one thinking the same way.

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Karen gets the DQ Strawberry Sundae Lip Balm for her comparison of housecleaning and wips:

"Hmmm, with the way I'm writing my current wip, once I'm finished with the first
draft I'm going to have to organize and rearrange like I have to do with my hall
closet. Both of these things are a mess!!!! But I'm still enjoying the writing
and I still love shoving crap into my closet. LOL "

Loved it. Email me with your snail mail, Karen, and I'll get it out to you.
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Going to the Jungle!

2006-08-25T10:06:00.000-04:00

Thank you all so much for your congratulations and support for my first full-length. To add to this news. I just found out today on the The Wild Rose Press boards that they have a new printer and all novels will be available on Amazon.com! That will be amazing!

Here's the blurb about my future book:

Wanna Make a Bet?

When aspiring artist and purposefully single Sophie Montgomery mutters those four fateful words, her sexy neighbor, Jay Coltrane, pounces on the opportunity to prove she’s not as immune to him as she thinks. Before she knows it, Sophie finds herself not only betting against a seduction, she’s betting against her own ability to keep her dreams intact and a certain luscious landscaper out of them.

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So, I plan to clean off my desk this week--kind of pre-fall cleaning so to speak--get organized and catch up on all your blogs! I've missed reading what everyone has been up to this week and how all the BIAW trials went.

Then, starting Monday, I want to get back to some serious writing. I have a couple Christmas stories floating around that I would like to submit to two different epubs plus my regular projects that I am still playing with.

I've got a little list going of updates that I have to do on my blog roll so if I haven't got you on my list down on the left hand side then just send me an email and I'll be updating it sometime next week as well as the project meters on the right etc. It's all on the long list of 'catch-ups' that I've been meaning to get done. Like I said, I'm cleaning the work-house so I can get on to the good stuff.

Cleaning, cleaning, hmmmmm, that puts me in mind of a contest *g*, I know, everything does. Here goes, and this won't be random, I'm going to actually choose my favorite answer to this question....

Relate a housecleaning chore to cleaning up your wip/ms and the winner will receive a Dairy Queen Strawberry Sundae Lip Balm as an after cleaning sweet treat!

Holidays and Happy Dances

2006-08-23T16:45:00.000-04:00

Well, we are all back safe and sound from our camping trip. It was the first one ever with the boys and they were great. We had a blast.

I must put this forth because it was a moment to note for a romance writer. At the campsite I was coming down from the showers and there was an old model, shiny baby blue, VW Beetle. Standing next to it was a young hunk wearing nothing but low riding blue jeans. Yowza! Karen, you would have loved his back. With the early morning sun coming down just so and his hair a little longer and all golden highlights...oh yeah, GOOD MORNING!

But even better than that, I come home to a contract in my email for my FULL LENGTH NOVEL!!!

This ms was turned down my Harlequin mainly because the premis didn't fit their line (and also just before the Temptation line folded) so I rallied with it a bit and sent it to The Wild Rose Press who loved it. Because it will be put out as a Single Title it will be available not only in ebook but also in PRINT. OMG I'm going to be able to hold my very own book in my hands!!

Wow, and we are going to the Canadian National Exibition (CNE) tomorrow in Toronto so I barely have time to breath from one event to the next LOL.

Don't forget to check below to see who won this week's episode of ESCAPE the Mondayn!
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Episode # 14: And the winner is...

2006-08-23T16:38:00.000-04:00

Yes, the campers are back. Putting all the names into the fishing hat...pulling out the left-over flies first...okay, and the winner is....Kelly!

Congratulations! Email me with your snail mail address and I'll get the Funky Fish Bookmark out to you!

Join us next week at the same bat station and the same bat channel for another riviting episode of ....

ESCAPE The Mondayn: Episode # 14

2006-08-21T00:09:00.000-04:00

Welcome to another episode of ESCAPE the Mondayn here on the Sensibly Insane Channel. I’m your host, Stacy Dawn, and...what? My dress? Oh, you noticed the unusual choice today did you? Well, it goes along with today's episode. This hosty is venturing into the wild as you read this pre-taped show. Yes, I’ll be hiking up the tent and building my campfire but I couldn’t let that stop me from being stylish now could I?

And, because of my little holiday, this will be an extended episode until Wednesday night when I return to the studios. With that in mind, however, I have some extra special help to make sure you don’t miss my sensibly insane musings on Wordflirts, Tuesday so be sure to check it out because there is a little something 'sweet' there you have a chance to win.

Now, let’s get to the fun part. Right from the Pink Carpet of the Catanetwork RCA’s this past Friday, please welcome our special guest celebrity spinner....Christian Bale!

Hellooo, Christian. I’m glad to see you’ve already prepared for the show.

Of course **sexy smile**

For those of you who missed it, Christian did an impromptu audition for this show at the RCA ceremonies

And I’m grateful you agreed to let me come today.

**eyes him up and down with sultry smile** Look at you, sweetheart, how could I not? Besides, as I recall, you were also requested by one of our contestants which pretty much makes you a sure thing. Her name is Melissa; I’ll introduce you after the show.

I’ll look forward to it.

Trust me, so will she. Now, why don’t you flex those super hero arms of yours and give our wheel a spin to see what one lucky, randomly drawn contestant could win?

Here goes...tickety-tickety-tickety-tickety....tickety-tickety-tickety...tickety-tickety....tickety...tick.

What is the prize for today?

A funky-fish bookmark.

Oh yes, though not the same kind I'll be fishing for, this oversized funky-fish bookmark is probably made from the same rubbery material as that sexy bat suit of yours. Hmmm, I think I’d like to see that up close and personal sometime.

**roguishly raises brow** Name the day.

We will definitely discuss that after the show as well. But first, let’s give these ladies their three-day escape:

You’ve left the resort to do some hiking along the breathtaking ridge. The day is beautiful and clear and the fresh air and exercising is exhilarating. Upon turning back, you come to a divide in the road and pause having no idea which route you had come up. After a frantic search, you discover you lost your map. Oh, well. Both path’s go down so you leave it to destiny and choose. Two steps onto the path of choice a firm hand grabs your arm. “Trust me, you don’t want to go that way.” ....FREEZE.

Let yourself escape and tell me what happens next. Who stopped you? Did you want to be stopped? What do you do now?

Give me two lines or give me twenty, it doesn’t matter, just go with the flow.

Remember, you have extra time to play this week so don’t forget to drop into contestant’s row and play:

And don't forget to check out the 'sweet' surprise in my post on Tuesday at Word Flirts!

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